"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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are you guys sure about the no contact ex thing

mongoose01

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i really feel like calling my ex. my dude says i should call her. i haven't talked to her in about a month and a half.

in my eyes it's quite obvious she doesn't want to talk to me (she hasn't called).

i know i sound pathetic. i really can't get off my mind. it's annoying.

i'd really like to hear from PlayerSupreme about this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Silquee Smoove

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Relationships are 50/50. In your case if she isn't interested, it ain't going to happen.

Game over, move on.

She doesn't feel the same for you and to use the analogy, "it's like telling a man who hasn't eaten in three days not to be hungry". If she doesn't have any feelings, then you would be best to move on. Modern day relationships are progressing more and more into limited time relationships anyhow. Too many options and competition from others.
 

brod716

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Lol, last two times I did that we ended up back together... and still are
 
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Originally posted by mongoose01
i really feel like calling my ex. my dude says i should call her. i haven't talked to her in about a month and a half.

in my eyes it's quite obvious she doesn't want to talk to me (she hasn't called).

i know i sound pathetic. i really can't get off my mind. it's annoying.

i'd really like to hear from PlayerSupreme about this.
1. You already have the answer. She hasn't called you. She is out there living her life without you in it.

2. The best revenge is living well. Date hotter chicks than she is and make sure she finds out.

3. Giving in to you (ego) and breaking down and calling would weaken you. Calling would weakin your flow that your building up. When you give in to this your ego suffers. You take yourself off your pedistal. In your own eyes you damage your own game...because you would know that you weakend.

4. Believe me this feeling will pass. You need to turn your attention to building a team of women to take care of your needs for the one that you lost. I recogmend a team because your vulnderable to getting oneitis again due to your recent break up.

5. This is your opportunity to live your dreams of becoming a Don Juan. You now have free time to develop your skills at meeting women so that you will never be afraid to loose one again. With your new skills you will know that any woman in your life is easily replaceable...no matter what you look like. You now have free time to date a multiple of women in your life.

The sun is shinning on you now. You never needed this woman to make you happy. You only need yourself.

Now is your time to develop the skill to get into womens heads to that they become enthralled like a vampire slave to the master vampire to you.

Become like the serpent in the garden of eden. Learn to manipulate women for your own pleasure while your waiting for your soul mate to show up in your life. This is what I did.

When my ex left me several years ago. I too have been there. But I grew in my abilities so that I could learn to handle women. I became an even better player. I conquered myself in the process.

This is life handing you an opportunity to conquer YOU.

There is no getting this one back. Why because she has made NO contact with you. She has moved on.

But if she calls make sure you pretend not to recognize her fawking voice and call her by the wrong name. This will show her that your having the time of your life without her.

She may even come sniffing around to see for herself. If she does it's not about YOU...it's about HER. She will want to know if your suffering and misses her.

Do not show weakness. Show her the new strong you. The you that she could of had. The YOU that she helped forge. And now has to suffer without.

A stronger version of the old.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dropt03Ranger

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i hear ya man...me and my ex fiance broke up 2 weeks ago basically...the first week sucked ass...i kept calling...then i stopped and she was always calling me "even tho she didnt care" lol...well now she is trying to work **** out so we can get back together...but im still living the single life up going out to clubs...meetings new girls and **** till she makes up her mind...if she hasnt even tried to contact you cut your loss and move onto better things man as hard as it is
 
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