"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you Good-Looking???

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Do I consider myself good looking? Yes

Have I been told that I am good looking? Not as much I'd like to but, again yes.

Do I care wether or not people perceive me as good looking? Not really.

At this point in time I really couldnt care less as to my looks. I do whatever I can to improve my outer self, but its my inner self that I put my main focus on improving. You see, lately I have been trying to permanently evict my inner wussiness, and once I do that my outer attractiveness will jump by a lot.


But as a reference point, people have said that I look like a younger version of Gary Busey, for those that know who he is
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sart

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YES

I am THE MOST attractive man for yards around.

Man, I have age creases now fromyears of sun abuse. Some chicks may not like it, I dont know but a few chicks love it...they call them character lines hahaha. Cracks me up. Nothing a botox shot wouldn't fix, a little shot of botulism to make my creases, wrinkles, character and feeling go away.

Women are attracted to looks, but really, you get them upstairs, in their head, that is where they reside.
 

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I have those very features that make a guy goodlooking.great jawline ,large eyes, nice full lips ,dark skin ,model features so i know im goodlooking because girls give me stares and flirt with me and some of them are intimidated by me,but i think i look wierd not in a bad way but in a good way because im multi racial i have a unique goodlooks.I have european ,far east asian,indian and african blood in me sometimes i look white sometimes i look hispanic so i attract tons of girls especially white women and hispanics cause i live in the suburbs of miami south florida one of the shallowest citys,and theres tons of goodlooking people here so i must be special because it seems the girls pay more atention to me.
 

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man u guys are lucky. I have never been told that i'm hot or even cute. Only my mom tells me that i'm cute:( . I feel really bad for guys with 7,8,9 in looks but are AFCs.
 

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i look like a mix between eminem and the rock, i always notice *****s staring at me, and those are the ones i always end up f^cking. I used to always pass up on the starers, but after i started always talking to the sexy starers I found out that many had been wanting my body for a really long time. I was pleasantly surprised. My days of being a sexy afc are over.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Casino

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think about it though.

you've got to get your weight game straight in order to become attractive. if you are fat or to thin women won't be as attracted to you.

the only attrative fat girl i've ever seen worked as a waitress at circus circus. she had nice caramel colored skin, pouty lips and a pretty face that was just begging me to make it my personal *** dumpster.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yea I am kinda thin, im 6 ft 1, but if i ever tried to be gigantic and muscular it would look weird and id be ugly, so I just tone my muscle up and stay fit, and gain some mass in my arms.
 

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Originally posted by A7Xx
Yea I am kinda thin, im 6 ft 1, but if i ever tried to be gigantic and muscular it would look weird and id be ugly, so I just tone my muscle up and stay fit, and gain some mass in my arms.
Yeah man being too skinny is definitely a turn off for girls. Especially if your tall. Oh, and if your going to gain mass in your arms, gain everywhere else or youll look out of proportion.
 

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Zairi: Where are you from? You got some fine girls in that group of people...
 

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I've said it before and I'll say it again -- looks are only ONE aspect of your sucess with women. Do not use your perceived lack of them as an excuse not to take action.

I've been scouted by a modelling agency (was rejected for being too tall -- or maybe they just didn't want to tell me the truth and hurt my feelings :D ). And I had sex for the first time at age 21, last year. Before that I could have taken anyone here on in AFCness and won.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by alboh
I've said it before and I'll say it again -- looks are only ONE aspect of your sucess with women. Do not use your perceived lack of them as an excuse not to take action.

I've been scouted by a modelling agency (was rejected for being too tall -- or maybe they just didn't want to tell me the truth and hurt my feelings :D ). And I had sex for the first time at age 21, last year. Before that I could have taken anyone here on in AFCness and won.

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u r quite cute, but u look really afc, sorry;)
 

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Originally posted by I-am-someone
How the **** can you tell if someone looks AFC from a picture? Being an AFC is related to behaviour, not looks...
Actually his superficial judgement was quite correct. Those pictures (besides #2, from last summer) were from my AFC days. I'd like to think I'm a better dresser and have better hair now.
 

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Funny thing i was commented by one of my fathers friends about how handsome i was while reading this.. she even went on to say ill look good in uniform... But however good looks does make girls come up to you chat you up. it has happened sometimes.. once in a blue moon but this genereally does not happen... i might be of the opinion the really handsome males dont get approached often.. mayb because the woman fears rejection.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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