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Are you Emotionally Unavailable?

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I was talking to my friend’s female cousins and I brought up I was recently single on dating apps. They said I was emotionally unavailable, but I’m ready to move on and start my search for the next relationship. This is the first time I heard about this term and it’s very similar to being stoic/indifferent to the relational outcomes. Is that a form of narcissism?

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I’ve been told I’m emotionally unavailable. I respond you like it.
 
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The No Bullshvt Blunt Answer: It means you two aren't mentally compatible and the sex honeymoon phase has come to an end.

Remedy: Find a girl that you can connect with on both sexual and mental levels.

TBH, you probably don't have a typical NPC personality and your friends know this and called you out on it. Get rid of your scarcity mindset and start actually filtering girls for compatibility.
 

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This manifests often as the “you only want me for sex discussion”.
 

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Does Chad need to be "emotionally available" to get poon? Next question ... :rolleyes:
 
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Does Chad need to be "emotionally available" to get poon? Next question ... :rolleyes:
This is something typical a Chad would hear actually. Beta Male Providers are usually compared to something like "Why can't you be like Derrick" or "Why can't you do this"
 

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This manifests often as the “you only want me for sex discussion”.
I think a lot of women don't quite understand that the sex IS the prime motivator for men wanting to be with them, no matter what men say. I have a theory on this: a woman who is attracted enough to a man to sex him figures that he is attractive enough to other women for them to offer to sex him, and so she thinks she might be a harem plate for him, hence the sheet test of trying to withhold poon.
 

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I'm emotionally unavailable for women who I am interested in sleeping with but not interested in potentially more serious interactions.
I am emotionally available to a woman I am interested in dating AFTER I heavily screen her AND any talk of a relationship is brought up by her. At least twice.
 

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Without a doubt, 100% yes. Completely unavailable, emotionally and physically.
 
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This thread proves my point. Emotionally Unavailable is the male version of Monkey Branching.
 
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