"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you down? *variation of the apocalypse opener*

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The term "Are you down?" is slang for like "Do you wanna do it?" for those that didn't know. And when I say do you wanna do it I mean in general, like are you down to go to Burger King today?

I went clubbing last night with my friend and he told me some of the stories of his one night stands, and I've noticed a trend in all of them that also tied in sort of into the times I fvcked a girl where I got it really quick. One of his stories in specific gives a really good outlook to his methods of how he gets a lot of it.

So him and a couple of other friends were just kickin' it at another friend's house, and he decides to go eat somewhere. One of the girls decides to tag along with him who already seemed to have some interest in him at that point as they just met that day and didn't really talk a lot at that point. So they're talking on the way to Jack in the Box and they look into each other's eyes for a moment, and this is how it went (names are made up):

Luther: You down?
Rachel: What do you mean?
Luther: You know what I mean!

She pauses for a second and has this conservative look on her face.

Rachel: I don't know....
Luther: You're not down!!! You're not down!!!
Rachel: Yeah right I'm down, sh1t let's go to your house right now.

And they fvcked just like that. It was really that easy. At first I wondered why it could work so instantly, but then I remembered something similar happened to me months ago. It was me, my bestfriend, and two girls, and we were just kickin' it outside of my bestfriend's house:

Raquelle: Damn Auriel's not down!
Auriel: What?!
Damien: Auriel's not down!
Me: Yeah I know, she's never down.
Auriel: What the hell, I'm down.
Raquelle: No you're not!

We changed the subject at this point and just talked about other stuff, but out of nowhere...

Auriel: Guys look, I'm down.

And she just starts making out with me and we fvcked in front of both of them.

This sort of reminds me of the apocalypse opener as they both seem to be the same in principle. Though the difference is that this wouldn't work as an opener, and the apocalypse wouldn't work after you opened.

I think what makes this work is that by asking her if she's down, it tells her you're open to sex, or else you wouldn't have asked her. Girls will probably hesitate to an answer, and at that point you just say You're not down, where she sees her window of opportunity closing for a good night bangin'. But that's just theory.

I've only did this once, but it was totally on accident, while my friend, who never seems to progress in a relationship with a girl, will almost always fvck them at least once using this method.

Going over it one more time, look into her eyes for a couple seconds and then calmly ask her "Are you down?" she'll ask "What?" then you tell her "You know what I mean!" At this point she'll mumble to herself trying to come to a decision where you'll interrupt her saying "You're not down! You're not down!" And that's when she'll come to a decision. Like the apocalypse, voice tone is important. Talk in a tone as if you're merely asking her if she wants to fvck, and that even if she says no it totally won't affect you.

Though I think for this to work, you'll need to build up some interest first. In the second story, Auriel already sort of liked me at first and in the first story, Rachel wouldn't have went with him to get food in the first place if she didn't already have some interest. Get one or two IOI's before using this.

I think it would be best for people to have their own little variation of this to fit their style of culture. Are you down is a very common term used frequently in the type of society I live in, but probably much less in other types.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks for this mate, sounds a lot better than all the escalating that one can sometimes opt to go through. Also acts as a resistance blaster. It's like you mock her if she's not up for it, so it convinces her to change her mind at that instant and go on instinct ... or so I'd hope, lol.

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Mad Manic said:
It's like you mock her if she's not up for it, so it convinces her to change her mind at that instant and go on instinct ... or so I'd hope, lol.
lol yeah I think that's how it works. Me and "Auriel" are just friends now (it was a mutual thing), but she told me that she didn't even know why she wanted to fvck me that night, and basically summed it up by saying "It just happened."
 

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Sounds good, but I have a concern...

It wouldn't work as well if you just directly ask if she wants to have sex, right?

I have no idea where the hell you're from, but in the United States (at least where I am, among my age bracket) "are you down" is not used at all. I can't think of any substitutes other than "you wanna fvck" or something equally as non-charming lol.

Maybe I just need to think harder...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket said:
Sounds good, but I have a concern...

It wouldn't work as well if you just directly ask if she wants to have sex, right?

I have no idea where the hell you're from, but in the United States (at least where I am, among my age bracket) "are you down" is not used at all. I can't think of any substitutes other than "you wanna fvck" or something equally as non-charming lol.

Maybe I just need to think harder...
Yeah I'm from California, we seem to have our own dictionary. Though I don't think it's good to be direct and just straight up say wanna have sex? The words sex and fvck are like those eye openers and the words you really pay attention to. Notice how those two words are the ones that stand out the most when used in a sentence. Are you down is more safe because the phrase is associated with other things besides fvcking, so it's as if you're asking a perfectly normal question, yet you're still asking to fvck.

I think a more universal thing to say is something like "So, you wanna?"

I dunno, what makes "Are you down?" work is that it's looked down upon if you're not "down" (the irony lol), so girls will be a lot more tempted to have sex in that situation. I guess as a substitute after you say "You wanna?", you could probably say like "Oh damn you don't wanna, all right whatever floats your boat." It's sort of like giving a kid candy, and he hesitates to take it because his mom told him not to eat candy that day, you take it away and walk away, and he'll immediately want it again. Like make her feel she's missing out.
 

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I don't like it that much, but what the hell I'd love to give it a try.
 

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I told my friends about this technique, one of them used it yesterday and he said he smashed. He said it went like this, it was over the phone:

Paul: So you down to come over?
Jamie: What, right now, are you gonna pick me up?
Paul: wtf you drive you come here
Jamie: I dunno Paul....
Paul: WOW you're so not down, you're unbelievable
Jamie: Fvck you I'm down, just wait for me okay
 
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