"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are You Dating The Next Jodi Arias?

bigneil

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Do you think Travis Alexander had any idea what kind of woman he was with before she stabbed him 27 times, slit his throat and shot him?

Have you observed her self-righteous behavior? She is one of the most pathological liars I've ever heard of, but it's scary to know that more women like her are out there.

He told his friends she was stalking him, hacked into his FB and slashed his tires. What were the other warning signs?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah, it's 'scary" all right, when the odds are 100x more that you will die in a car wreck. So don't even get into a car, man. It's "scary".
 

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you could say that about anything really, hmm I shouldn't enter a bathrrom since most accidents happening on home is there.

same with you are walking down the street then someone mug you, or you are the next target of a serial killer.

thing is if you start that way of thinking you will start to be a scared guy who can't aproach anyone with the fear he/she can assault you.

I say get worried with things you can control and change, that one? you can't do anything about
 
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