"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are You Dating The Next Jodi Arias?

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Do you think Travis Alexander had any idea what kind of woman he was with before she stabbed him 27 times, slit his throat and shot him?

Have you observed her self-righteous behavior? She is one of the most pathological liars I've ever heard of, but it's scary to know that more women like her are out there.

He told his friends she was stalking him, hacked into his FB and slashed his tires. What were the other warning signs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah, it's 'scary" all right, when the odds are 100x more that you will die in a car wreck. So don't even get into a car, man. It's "scary".
 

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you could say that about anything really, hmm I shouldn't enter a bathrrom since most accidents happening on home is there.

same with you are walking down the street then someone mug you, or you are the next target of a serial killer.

thing is if you start that way of thinking you will start to be a scared guy who can't aproach anyone with the fear he/she can assault you.

I say get worried with things you can control and change, that one? you can't do anything about
 
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