"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are you confident?

shadowfox

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Are you confident?

The people that frequent this site want to know how to get women. Well some people would say it's easy to get women and I'll tell you why they think its easy, it's because they have CONFIDENCE.

In this post i intend to describe what i think confidence is and look at ways to aquire it.

What is confidence?

Confidence is a feeling of unbeatability. A feeling where you know you will succeed no matter what happens.

Whilst watching the world cup and especially the England v Portugal match I noticed something in the penalty shoot outs and i knew who would win the penalty's quite early on. By studying the players body language you could see the portugese where confident and determined, they basicly knew they'd score there penalty before they put the ball down and yes they did score. However you could see from the england players that they weren't so confident in there penalty taking abilitys and thus missed there penalties. They where striking in hope whilst the portugese where striking in knowing.

The portugese are actually not as good a team as england individually but they where confident in there penaltys and that is what you need to succeed.

So how do you gain CONFIDENCE?

Confidence is a mind set that can be aquired VIA PRACTICE!

I'll summarise the mind set for you:

When approaching the girl you wont think 'OMG DUZ SHE LYK ME???' you will be thinking 'Right, i Know i can get this girl easily but lets see what she's like first'

and hell if you fail with that girl you will go 'haha that was a one off.'
instead of the not very confident 'omg she diddnt like me im a failure in life im depressed waaa ill never get girls'


Come on guys, your way ahead of the field. YOU HAVE THIS AMAZING DJ-Bible. Most guys dont know what you do. THEREFORE you are A GREAT CATCH FOR GIRLS so you should have the CONFIDENT MIND SET.

SO GO OUT AND START APPROACHING! You will be glad you did.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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feedback please on my post. I think i have the right idea if anyone wants to add stuff to help people please post away! Thanks for reading.
 

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no offense man, but these types of threads have been done over and over again, by people with more experience and wisdom.

You're intentions were great, its just that its getting kinda old. Again look back in the DJ bible for posts from Pook and BBB etc.
 

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dude you're not too experienced yourself as judging by your post count, so chill down. The man's intentions were good, and even though these posts are numerous, it's always good to have a little refresher from time to time.

to fox, good writeup. Simple and to the point. :up:
 
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