"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are you attracted from women posing like divas?

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Im kinda curious about your taste guys, Im referring mostly to tinder profiles and old generally.

Thats basically 80% of the girls whos profile seems like a fashion advertisement more than a dating profile.

We get professionaly made pictures in unnatural poses and attires, we get the play with the light/shadow, we get the fancy clothes and generally some travel magazine style pictures toward the end (her walking on the beach from behing or her petting an animal under the sun).

I dont know you but I would rather just see how they look like, how their faces and bodies are...a simple picture of her at the park would do but apparently its too much to ask.

I'm just wondering if those pictures work on guys, do you like the way they portray themselves? To me it just look like a high maintenance psyco.

I kid you not there are profiles where out of 5 pictures only 1 happen to useful to see how the hell she looks like.

Also a further plague are the "art and literature junkie" which spread faster than covid19 clearly not referring to Michelangelo...I kid you not a girl asked me my 5 favourite books and then she complained that there was "none of the classics" among them.

Finally very few of them bother to write a couple of lines in their bio yet complain if you open without a personalized message.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im kinda curious about your taste guys, Im referring mostly to tinder profiles and old generally.

Thats basically 80% of the girls whos profile seems like a fashion advertisement more than a dating profile.

We get professionaly made pictures in unnatural poses and attires, we get the play with the light/shadow, we get the fancy clothes and generally some travel magazine style pictures toward the end (her walking on the beach from behing or her petting an animal under the sun).

I dont know you but I would rather just see how they look like, how their faces and bodies are...a simple picture of her at the park would do but apparently its too much to ask.

I'm just wondering if those pictures work on guys, do you like the way they portray themselves? To me it just look like a high maintenance psyco.

I kid you not there are profiles where out of 5 pictures only 1 happen to useful to see how the hell she looks like.

Also a further plague are the "art and literature junkie" which spread faster than covid19 clearly not referring to Michelangelo...I kid you not a girl asked me my 5 favourite books and then she complained that there was "none of the classics" among them.

Finally very few of them bother to write a couple of lines in their bio yet complain if you open without a personalized message.
How did all those matches you got work out?
 

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I'm attracted to humility, the diva stuff I view as just something I have to tolerate but it's unattractive
When was the last time you had sex with someone from OLD?
 

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How did all those matches you got work out?
For some reason they were legit, no bots but the degree of boredom those girls bring its unbelievable.

I had more fun listening at workers jackhammering nearby my building then talking with them, they really have low social skills and cant properly have a conversation beyong very simple and mundane things.

Also keep in mind Im in my mid30 and match with girls between late 20s and early 30s therefore the amount of mental disorders would scare the guards of a madhouse.
 

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I'm just wondering if those pictures work on guys, do you like the way they portray themselves? To me it just look like a high maintenance psyco.
Most women could post a picture of a piece of corn bread on OLD and have 10,000 matches. So the answer is yes, it works quite well for them. Plenty of thirsty guys out there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For some reason they were legit, no bots but the degree of boredom those girls bring its unbelievable.

I had more fun listening at workers jackhammering nearby my building then talking with them, they really have low social skills and cant properly have a conversation beyong very simple and mundane things.

Also keep in mind Im in my mid30 and match with girls between late 20s and early 30s therefore the amount of mental disorders would scare the guards of a madhouse.
Did any of them agree to meet and actually meet you? Or did you not even bother to try meeting any of them after that?

Personally i think they just want to be entertained, and they have that same low investment strategy as us to achieve it. She just matches with guys as a numbers game until some of them do all the work to entertain her, which requires only a minimal and passive investment from her. Then again if they did it as a numbers game maybe they should be expected to match with more guys, but we know women match with very/extremely few, so your handicap theory is probably more likely. It might be a combination of the 2 due to corona too.

I would just say maybe 2-3 quick lines, then say i think chatting is really boring compared to meeting (true) and say i think we should meet. More than that, i cant go through with anymore unless she is making the same effort as me, which i have only experienced a few times in my life online (you forget it's even possible to be that way). That way you dont waste more than a minimum of energy until the inevitable flake, which they would still do if you put in more effort.
 
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All you have to do is create btch profile to test the waters out. I don't get dudes who say like 'fck no!' as if they are required to dress sexy go on date and fck.
If you put up an average pic you will get a lot more responses from old men, bellow average guys, fat guys, guys you probably would not fck with.
But a hot pic for some reason gets less responses, a lot more views, but less people write you, and those dudes that write you are usually either rich or more masculine.
 

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All you have to do is create btch profile to test the waters out. I don't get dudes who say like 'fck no!' as if they are required to dress sexy go on date and fck.
If you put up an average pic you will get a lot more responses from old men, bellow average guys, fat guys, guys you probably would not fck with.
But a hot pic for some reason gets less responses, a lot more views, but less people write you, and those dudes that write you are usually either rich or more masculine.
Thats interesting, so they are actually stating that they are high maintenance so poor guys who cant afford them wont bother to write while only hot guys think they can compensate for it?
 

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I have no clue as to what's up really.
But it's a fact, you can replicate it, average pic 6 to 7 you get a ton a lot more replies than a hottie, 8 and above. 8 might get 15 per day, while 6 gets 50 per day. By the way, all of those who write, say hello, how are you.
 

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I have no clue as to what's up really.
But it's a fact, you can replicate it, average pic 6 to 7 you get a ton a lot more replies than a hottie, 8 and above. 8 might get 15 per day, while 6 gets 50 per day. By the way, all of those who write, say hello, how are you.
Well given that most girls spend hours to take each picture but dont even bother to spend 20 secs to fill their bio, I would be surprised for a less general message...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man i am seeing red pill terms everywhere. Im randomly watching BBC Earth and just look at the comments section here:
 

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Women gain power by sexualizing everything to get attention.
Look at all the hoes who get fake t*ts, fake ass, etc.
And the girls that OP talks about whose profile looks like a fashion advertisement, that’s not their real life. They are probably insecure and broke.
Guys should reward women who are down to earth with attention. But no, the thirsty simps out there ruin it and make women even worse than they are.
 

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i hate all women equally. theres just so much stuff about them that i hate. women attention whoring or not makes no difference to me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's a marketing campaign to get the eye of a high-status male. That's the best way to think about it. To me, it's f*cking boring now, but it catches my eye.

I'll also meet women and never look at their instagrams or watch their snapchat stories, because I'm bored of it. If I want to see pictures of hot girls, there's pornstars available at the tap of a finger.
 
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