Ken785
Master Don Juan
Most of us hang out in social circles, we all have them. In every social circle there's rankings so to speak.
There are the: False-Alphas, Betas, and Real Alphas.
"False-Alphas" - who are the big fish in the small pond you call your circle. You can sniff these guys out by seeing it in their behavior.
They are the ones that are the "coolest", they are the most respect, they are usually the more talkative, and sometimes you can see them showing less respect to the Betas of the group...they usually do this to reaffirm the Betas and themselves that they are the "Top Dogs".
He might even disrespect you passively asking you do do things he can do himself like go get him a beer in front of others, especially HBs making you look like a tool and reinstating that you are the Beta of the group.
HBs that you may hang out with can see this instantly when they hang out with your group.
Please do not mistake this guy for a Real-Alpha!!
Disrespecting others, especially your own friends is not in the true curriculum of real Alpha men. Although these guys may show some characteristics of an Alpha, that is why women are attracted to them. They may be leaders of their own pack but they are false leaders. That is why we call these Alphas, FALSE ALPHAS.
So what is a Beta?
"Betas"- Are at the bottom of the totem pole. They follow around the Alphas of the group and usually is less respected by them. They treat the Alphas as if the Alphas are "better than them" and so the Alpha Male acts accordingly. This is not good when you're trying to pull chicks. The Alpha makes the Beta look like a tool and as a result. The chicks are more attracted toward the Alpha Male.
and finally, there are Real-Alphas:
"Real-Alpha" - The guy who is loved and respected by everyone and he shows the same. Unlike the False-Alpha he is polite to the people around him but will not take any disrespect from people either. He doesn't put up with that type of behavior. Others want to be him, women want to be with him. Please refer to "DJ" in the bible.
Its good to learn from a group of friends that are the "cool crowd" so you could learn from them and grow, but if they don't respect you it WILL resonate with the new people you guys interact with and they WILL see it. (HBs included) You can be damn sure HBs will sense you're the beta of the group..your c0ck-blocking alpha friends will make sure of it.
Worst off your friends already have a "script" about you, and that's VERY DIFFICULT to change if at all.
*Script- Other people's own definition of how they see you.
But if you hang with the "uncool" crowd, sure you'll be the alpha male of the group and sure your friends might respect you and that will make you feel a hell of a lot better but you can grow and learn anything from them. Worst off, their personalities might rub off on you.
But enough with the Negatives. So what do you do you may ask?
Best thing to do i think is if you're in either situation. START YOUR OWN PACK OF FRIENDS!!!
Seriously, who wants to be stuck in a group if your not even respected on the same level. You're never going to pull any tail that way and you're going to live a miserable life.
On the flip side, if your group is full of Betas, that do nothing to improve themselves... Find yourself some people that do want to. You don't need these guys holding you back in life and your progression to be a successful socially.
Go out on your own and make new friends. You're a social being right? Who doesn't like to meet new people? These new people will have no idea what type of person you are. If you have a new DJ identity, show them that!!
They will see it and your new script will be written through them and they will see you as a DJ because you will act accordingly.
But what about your old "friends" you know, the "uncool" or even the "cool" crowd??
I'm not saying you have to abandon them...you can still hang out with them if you want but just do it once and a while...if you are a rarity and only show up if YOU have the time, they will have more respect for you each time you come around.
On a last note, just remember:
Women are seeking Alpha Males. Remember, they are the ones seeking the Alphas to rear their children, not the sissy Betas. Be the Real-Alpha, not the false one that's a jerk hmm?
Adios brothers! - Ken785
There are the: False-Alphas, Betas, and Real Alphas.
"False-Alphas" - who are the big fish in the small pond you call your circle. You can sniff these guys out by seeing it in their behavior.
They are the ones that are the "coolest", they are the most respect, they are usually the more talkative, and sometimes you can see them showing less respect to the Betas of the group...they usually do this to reaffirm the Betas and themselves that they are the "Top Dogs".
He might even disrespect you passively asking you do do things he can do himself like go get him a beer in front of others, especially HBs making you look like a tool and reinstating that you are the Beta of the group.
HBs that you may hang out with can see this instantly when they hang out with your group.
Please do not mistake this guy for a Real-Alpha!!
Disrespecting others, especially your own friends is not in the true curriculum of real Alpha men. Although these guys may show some characteristics of an Alpha, that is why women are attracted to them. They may be leaders of their own pack but they are false leaders. That is why we call these Alphas, FALSE ALPHAS.
So what is a Beta?
"Betas"- Are at the bottom of the totem pole. They follow around the Alphas of the group and usually is less respected by them. They treat the Alphas as if the Alphas are "better than them" and so the Alpha Male acts accordingly. This is not good when you're trying to pull chicks. The Alpha makes the Beta look like a tool and as a result. The chicks are more attracted toward the Alpha Male.
and finally, there are Real-Alphas:
"Real-Alpha" - The guy who is loved and respected by everyone and he shows the same. Unlike the False-Alpha he is polite to the people around him but will not take any disrespect from people either. He doesn't put up with that type of behavior. Others want to be him, women want to be with him. Please refer to "DJ" in the bible.
Its good to learn from a group of friends that are the "cool crowd" so you could learn from them and grow, but if they don't respect you it WILL resonate with the new people you guys interact with and they WILL see it. (HBs included) You can be damn sure HBs will sense you're the beta of the group..your c0ck-blocking alpha friends will make sure of it.
Worst off your friends already have a "script" about you, and that's VERY DIFFICULT to change if at all.
*Script- Other people's own definition of how they see you.
But if you hang with the "uncool" crowd, sure you'll be the alpha male of the group and sure your friends might respect you and that will make you feel a hell of a lot better but you can grow and learn anything from them. Worst off, their personalities might rub off on you.
But enough with the Negatives. So what do you do you may ask?
Best thing to do i think is if you're in either situation. START YOUR OWN PACK OF FRIENDS!!!
Seriously, who wants to be stuck in a group if your not even respected on the same level. You're never going to pull any tail that way and you're going to live a miserable life.
On the flip side, if your group is full of Betas, that do nothing to improve themselves... Find yourself some people that do want to. You don't need these guys holding you back in life and your progression to be a successful socially.
Go out on your own and make new friends. You're a social being right? Who doesn't like to meet new people? These new people will have no idea what type of person you are. If you have a new DJ identity, show them that!!
They will see it and your new script will be written through them and they will see you as a DJ because you will act accordingly.
But what about your old "friends" you know, the "uncool" or even the "cool" crowd??
I'm not saying you have to abandon them...you can still hang out with them if you want but just do it once and a while...if you are a rarity and only show up if YOU have the time, they will have more respect for you each time you come around.
On a last note, just remember:
Women are seeking Alpha Males. Remember, they are the ones seeking the Alphas to rear their children, not the sissy Betas. Be the Real-Alpha, not the false one that's a jerk hmm?
Adios brothers! - Ken785
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