"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Are you asking me out!!!???"

napoleon

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Could this be good to say to see the girls reactions.
Like she says- Where are you going tonight?
And you say-OMG are you asking me out???!!OR
Is that an invitation?


See her reactions. If she says NOOOOOOOOOOO!
Than you say
PHEW, OK,I already started coming up with excuses(by this maybe she'll start thinking why dont you like her and start validating to you)






Would that be good?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah I thought so. It is a little ****y, you can see what she thinks of you and even is her opinion of you is not good you can bail out, seeming as you wanted to blow HER off even though she blew you off.
 
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