Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Are you an Alpha?" - Simon Sinek (Cartoon version)

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I hate to use the term but here is one of the most concise definitions of the concept I've encountered. You can just listen to the audio but the cartoons are brilliant.

In a nutshell: Alpha gets first choice of meat and mate.

What does this mean in the modern world?
  • First choice of meat (he has enough resources to go to Whole Foods and Steakhouses and pay for dates)
  • First choice of mate (he is physically powerful and strong enough to take anyone in the room in a fight)
Summary - if you are broke OR weak, you are not Alpha. Get a job and hit the gym.

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I will take on anyone in the room, gym 5 days a week 5 main meals a day no performance enhancing drugs ......
*However im self employed i have excellent weeks and low income weeks,
*If she aint just as happy at a steak house... as she is sitting on me bed with a bag of chips and a bottle of top shelf spirit from the corner shop she aint welcome in my life
 
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Any guy can get delusional and think he's the top dog, but we live in a society of laws where many people are carrying concealed weapons.
 
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