"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you adventurous?

Jizz

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(I dont know how to spell Adenturous haha)

Anyway, does this sound like a good idea? Texting her and just saying "Are you adventurous"

If she replies yeh, then ill say something like "Well if you wanna go on an adventure, dont make any plans on saturday, let me know by thursday if your up for it"

Would it work?

I think it could be better, how could i improve something like this?

Cheers
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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See im not entirely sure, but i think this is a bit of a random and different idea

Get an all day train ticket, to go pretty much wherever we want, (Its possible in england)

To tell her that were going somewhere, but not reveal where, and just sit on the train and every now and then, go "come on this is our stop" get off, and see where that place takes us, see whats around, then get back on the train for the next part of the adventure!

And have some fun along the way!
 

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It's a great thing to say and women love guys that can be spontanious and adventurous (spelling??). Thing is that you have to be able to live up to the expectations this creates in her mind. If you don't do that, then it may very well backfire. So be careful, but if you're able to pull it off, then great!

I like to ask girls if they are spontanious and adventurous pretty early in a pickup. Most say that they are and i use that to my advantage later on when going for the kiss. She has already claimed to be adventurous so that makes it easier to get the kiss..I like to follow up with the "kissing-school"-routine. Works almost every time. (Cred; Swinggcat)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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