"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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are you a true loner?

thederekeffect1

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Yes, I'm a loner, but I like to think that my life is more productive then jerking off and sleeping.

... Or maybe not. I bet it could be though if I didn't spend so much time thinking about how to make it more productive. I could be spending much more time actually improving my life, physically and mentally... By playing Wii Fit alone in my bedroom. Kidding!

The truth is that I've always been a loner and I really don't know how to be social. Most of the time, I find myself uncomfortable in social situations. I find myself even more uncomfortable when people get too close to me. I prefer casual conversation compared to social activities, because I don't know how to enjoy myself in these situations.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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