"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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are you a true Don Juan?

check_mate_kid_uk

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You are a true Don Juan? To me that’s rather paradoxical seeing as something very unexpected and enlightening happens when you grasp towards it.

Truth is once you begin to grasp the concept you realise there is no Don Juan there is only you! This is the point where you take the information and do what you want not what a set of rules tells you to? And who do you think made those rules, you did! Every single one of us did! Over the years who formed all these rules, who has sculpted them in to what they are? We did, and that is why there are so many conflicting ideas, Don Juan is really just me and you and every one else’s ideologies bundled up together, so there is no Don Juan to, to say you are a Don Juan is to say you are the beliefs of every single person, but you can only live by one persons beliefs and that person should be you. When we learn from Don Juan we learn from each other. Trying to be a Don Juan is like going in to school to try and become the class. You come here as yourself and you go away wiser but still yourself, and that’s the important part yourself, if you spend your time trying to be a Don Juan you will miss the opportunity to learn something and come away empty handed, but if instead of thinking how can I become a Don Juan, you think to yourself, how can I ‘better myself’ rather then wasting your time fooling yourself in to believing you are some kind of living legend, you will walk away wiser.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i like you view check m8,

but why do you have to go so deep all the time, i look at your posts an think, " oh god not another one of these philosophy speeches again"

your wise, smart, educated and most of all..... boring.... ha ha ha, just kidding...

good point though, i suppose its what is repeated in the bible..
just mix the don juan attitude with yours until you find who YOU ARE... the part of you that is attractive to women.
 

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The amazing part is the importance of Don Juan as a symbol. With out it, this may aswell be another dating and relationship forum, that is not to usefull, Don juan is the essence of the site, it gives you an image to aim for, with out it sosuave would not be good, it is what makes ossuave diffrent and with time people realise the thing i mentioned in the original post.
 
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