Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
I am I smoke whenever nicotine tells my system I want it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
are you a smoker?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
smoke what?
Ah, my healthy improvement.
I used to smoke. I smoked kinda much in army. Stress and all that **** you know. But I managed to quit totally about 4 months ago. And that was army time.
I was lost for a month or so. Didn't know how to control my nerves when there isn't the calming smoke anymore.
But survived and I feel great.
Now when I watch people smoke it makes me just sorry for them.
Smoking is ****ed up!
I used to smoke. I smoked kinda much in army. Stress and all that **** you know. But I managed to quit totally about 4 months ago. And that was army time.
I was lost for a month or so. Didn't know how to control my nerves when there isn't the calming smoke anymore.
But survived and I feel great.
Now when I watch people smoke it makes me just sorry for them.
Smoking is ****ed up!
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
I've smoked 3 ciggerettes in my life when I was a teenager. The first was to test it, the second was peer pressure, the third was a flavored one and I was curious about it. Each time I would get a massive headache an hour later, and I hated the taste of them. I don't know how or why smokers stick to it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.