"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are you a slob?

Atom Smasher

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I'm about to post a tip in the appropriate forum, but before I do I'd like to get an idea of how many men, who struggle with relationship issues, also struggle with an inability to keep their environment clean and in order.

I'm going somewhere with this, trust me. Please report back if you find yourself unable to keep your living space orderly. Do you experience any form of self-loathing because you just can't get your physical environment together?

I have a solution to this that has helped me enormously, but I'd like to get the thoughts of those who struggle with this before posting my solution in the tips section.

Edit: I know many will think this should be in the tips section initially, but I wanted to get a cross section of the general Don Juanabee who might not look in the tips area.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr_rogers

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Yeah, this is a big problem with me. My room is pretty much always a disaster zone. I'm not sure about the self-loathing or not. Maybe subconsciously I wish that I'd get my **** together and keep things in order.
 
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One thing that has helped me with procrastination is put everything on a calender when i wake up, brush my teeth, waste time on so souave, or facebook read a book play with my lil bro etc find a chick... the list goes on try it out

dont knock till you have tried it
 

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Yup, I'm a slob. I let dishes pile up in the sink, my trash can is practically overflowing before I empty it and there's usually clothes etc. strewn all over my apartment. I always think I should clean it up but I never do. Then every once in a while, I'll just get really fed up, clean everything up and feel pretty good about it. I'll even realize that cleaning up really isn't so bad. But then I return to my slob ways and the cycle repeats.
 
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