"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you a slob?

Atom Smasher

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I'm about to post a tip in the appropriate forum, but before I do I'd like to get an idea of how many men, who struggle with relationship issues, also struggle with an inability to keep their environment clean and in order.

I'm going somewhere with this, trust me. Please report back if you find yourself unable to keep your living space orderly. Do you experience any form of self-loathing because you just can't get your physical environment together?

I have a solution to this that has helped me enormously, but I'd like to get the thoughts of those who struggle with this before posting my solution in the tips section.

Edit: I know many will think this should be in the tips section initially, but I wanted to get a cross section of the general Don Juanabee who might not look in the tips area.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr_rogers

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Yeah, this is a big problem with me. My room is pretty much always a disaster zone. I'm not sure about the self-loathing or not. Maybe subconsciously I wish that I'd get my **** together and keep things in order.
 
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One thing that has helped me with procrastination is put everything on a calender when i wake up, brush my teeth, waste time on so souave, or facebook read a book play with my lil bro etc find a chick... the list goes on try it out

dont knock till you have tried it
 

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Yup, I'm a slob. I let dishes pile up in the sink, my trash can is practically overflowing before I empty it and there's usually clothes etc. strewn all over my apartment. I always think I should clean it up but I never do. Then every once in a while, I'll just get really fed up, clean everything up and feel pretty good about it. I'll even realize that cleaning up really isn't so bad. But then I return to my slob ways and the cycle repeats.
 
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