"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you a Player?

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Are you a Player??

So i have been asked this more often than not since tightening up my game, and I wanted to see if anybody has some new ideas of how to respond.

Depending on the situation, i ask "how do you define player?" and then say "if that means that i enjoy having fun, then i guess im guilty..." or i come up with some other way to diffuse it.

Humor works too, "if sleeping with thousands of woman makes me a player than i guess you can call me don juan himself"

So anybody have any other ways of addressing this question?

Any ideas would be great.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Humour, sarcasm and being ****y are the way forward as you said.

'Yeah I'm a player. See those twins over there. I had them both at the same time. And their hot mom. At the same time.'

Don't take these comments seriously, what ever you do. If it's from women, it's because you're destroying the position on their social ladder you've been placed. Betas feel envious. Alphas may or may not feel threatened, but any true alpha won't give a ****.

I haven't had these exacts words said to me, but things like 'You can't say/do that' (in reference to me being sexual and not giving a damn about pandering to others unless I actually want to be nice), and 'You won't get girls that way, they want xyz.' (from betas and other women, as if I'd listen to them anymore)
 
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HMMM PLAYA NO........BALLER.........YES, DONT HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME........if you mean I am confident, smooth, cool then by that definition I will agree.

-whats a player?
-I am just a lil ****y, not a player at all..........(slight smile/smirk)
-oh you got me, guilty as charged
-I am reformed, I am seeking the one that can make me commit to just one woman.

-MEEEEEEE A PLAYER............NAWWWWWW YOU MUST have me confused.

-Oh I just see objects of beauty and I must have them

-ya I am a player, I got a pimp hat and cane, I walk with a swagger or stanky leg, what up b itches..........YA I AM DA MACK DADDY.

yes deflection is by far the most fun one can have with being called on something. (SEE ANY POLITICIAN and how they field questions)

USE DEFLECTION TO AVOID DETECTION.........a tactic known is a opportunity blown.........nuff said.
 
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Basically,
Don't be ashamed of who you are, and don't let them convince you that you're wrong for living the dream.

Secretly, women will wonder what's wrong with them if a well-known, confident master of seduction and pleasure rejects them, and he doesn't feel like she's worthy enough. This doesn't apply to men that sleep with anything and everything.

You truly are a player then, and your large numbers will never be satisfying. I've been doing that for years and I found it sad when my friends first started to argue about who has more conquests, and then argue which friend had better quality conquests.

COD had some good ones. "What can I say? Women love me, and I love them."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Five To One

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Sexual said:
Basically,
Don't be ashamed of who you are, and don't let them convince you that you're wrong for living the dream.

Secretly, women will wonder what's wrong with them if a well-known, confident master of seduction and pleasure rejects them, and he doesn't feel like she's worthy enough. This doesn't apply to men that sleep with anything and everything.

You truly are a player then, and your large numbers will never be satisfying. I've been doing that for years and I found it sad when my friends first started to argue about who has more conquests, and then argue which friend had better quality conquests.

COD had some good ones. "What can I say? Women love me, and I love them."
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I have problems with girls talking trash about me, both behind my back and to my face some. They dispise how I live. You cant use ****y/funny when girls just have it out for you. Its hard to cut them out of my life, its not that big of a town, everyone has friends in every social circle. How do you handle it when they arent a target, just a girl trying to ruin it for you? They dont use the word player, they say im easy, i only want one thing from girls, a man wh0re.. etc.


btw charlie sheen is a huge idol of mine
 
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If they are out for you, then the smartest opinion would be to hide your emotion. Never let anyone know what you're thinking. Go out of your way to feed their ego, smile at them, agree if you can. Keep your enemies close, and as they begin to wonder, "maybe I was wrong about this guy..." That's when you exact your revenge. There's nothing more satisfying than making someone that once treated you like piss suddenly revere, even love you--because then you have control.
 
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When I get that, I just say something like: "Yeah, by the standards around here, I am. In this country/city, if you can comfortably talk to women and enjoy their company, you get labelled a player. *shrug*"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jitterbug said:
When I get that, I just say something like: "Yeah, by the standards around here, I am. In this country/city, if you can comfortably talk to women and enjoy their company, you get labelled a player. *shrug*"
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Golden. :up:
 
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This question is a sh1t test and the only way to disarm a sh1t test is using C&F:

Her: Are you a player?

You: "No I am not a player (look at her in the eyes and give her a c0cky smile) but I got game."

She will love that answer, trust me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pallo316 said:
Are you a Player??

So i have been asked this more often than not since tightening up my game, and I wanted to see if anybody has some new ideas of how to respond.

Depending on the situation, i ask "how do you define player?" and then say "if that means that i enjoy having fun, then i guess im guilty..." or i come up with some other way to diffuse it.

Humor works too, "if sleeping with thousands of woman makes me a player than i guess you can call me don juan himself"

So anybody have any other ways of addressing this question?

Any ideas would be great.
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I don't consider myself a player, and I usually tell girls this. I simply tell them that I come from a position of abundance when it comes to women in my life, and I'm honest to all of them. I also stress the fact that I'm not against relationships, I just haven't found the right girl for one in this time of my life yet.
 
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