"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are You A Man?

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My fellow brothers, in this present hour I speak to the Man inside all of us. Put aside the mindset of getting women, or for some of you, pretending you dont care about getting women. Put aside the Dating for Dummies book. Put aside the vasoline. Most importantly, put aside your ego.

Being a Man isn't about how many chicks you've laid. It isn't about how many beers you can down. Hell, it isn't even about your hobbies or activities. Dare I say it isn't even about your passion?

It is about RESPONSIBILITY.

If you dare to head down the path of a Man, you must be willing to accept the responsibilities.

You are responsible for taking the initiative.

You are responsible for hesitation.

You are responsible for setting an example.

You are responsible for laziness.

You are responsible for keeping the morale of the team, be it family or relationships, in good health.

You are responsible if the team's morale is low.

You are responsible for success.

You are responsible for failure.

You are responsible for the team's actions.

You are responsible for your actions.

There's a lot of shlt you are responsible for and there's a whole lot more.

But most of all,
You are responsible to admit you are wrong when you've made stupid decisions. You must be willing to take the blame. Then you must fix it.


Hey, this looks familar:

You are responsible for approachig a girl.

You are responsible for thinking you don't have a chance and chicken out.

You are responsible for showing other guys how it's done, the Man way.

You are responsible for making lame as$ excuses about why you couldn't talk to her.

You are responsible for being clever, funny, and charming.

You are responsible if you are boring, lame, AFCish.

You are responsible for getting the number, getting the date, getting the girl.

You are responsible for being rejected, humiliated, laughed at, cold shouldered.

You are responsible for how the relationships go, where the date takes place, how it is to be arranged.

You are responsible for dressing properly, good manners, doing the right thing, and being a Man .

Be a Man. Don't worry about anything else. The chicks will come naturally.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Royal Elite

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Beautiful Post bro
And God said it isnt good that Man be alone so he put adam in a deep sleep and took a rib and made women then presenter her to him.
Women were made for Men. If you dont work on being a Man why do you think you will get Women.
 

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despite that you can get women because most "men" are wimps and the average/fat/ugly women will have to take them....or turn lesbian/get a huge dog
 

DeathDealer

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Originally posted by Double
despite that you can get women because most "men" are wimps and the average/fat/ugly women will have to take them....or turn lesbian/get a huge dog
looks like someone isn't get any action
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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