"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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are you a keyboard jocky?

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mr.uk

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im gonna be the first to admit it, i am definately what you would call a keyboard jocky. The lifestyle i have created myself means that i very rarely meet new people as im in the same social spots every week because thats where the small amount of proper friends i have hang out. So approaching new women never happens. I read all this information but hardly use it.

Thank god i am going to university in October!
Things will change then but for now i am a keyboard jocky.

what about you guys...are you one aswell (you'll need to destroy that ego before admitting this) or are you generally becoming a full blown Don Juan?

I am delaying my social don juanage. lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In Motion

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Good on you for admitting it! I think there are a lot of KBJs here that are doing just what you are, reading on this forum but not doing anything about it. Fess up people, thinking you are a DJ by joining this board is self dilusional.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Im not...i actually get vag unlike the majority of you...
me>you... haha jk..
 
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LostAndConfused

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Ill admit I'm here more than I should be. The time I spend here I should be spending going out and approaching, at least being social. Nothing I can do about it until college (uni) though.
 
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Warrior74

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these days yah. i guess I am more of KJ than DJ. I had wild times in college and my 20s now I'm trying to straight out things in my life. I'm just here sharing what i've learned so far and learning some new stuff. My dating situation is weird to say the least.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EricInTheHouse

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I have made major attempts before I joined Sosuave... but I could be doing better.... I dunno.... I'm just feeling more comfortable with myself lately...A definate improvent from 6 months ago.

I'll just say I'm stuck between a Don Juan, and a KBJ.. ATM>
 
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