"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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are you a keyboard jocky?

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mr.uk

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im gonna be the first to admit it, i am definately what you would call a keyboard jocky. The lifestyle i have created myself means that i very rarely meet new people as im in the same social spots every week because thats where the small amount of proper friends i have hang out. So approaching new women never happens. I read all this information but hardly use it.

Thank god i am going to university in October!
Things will change then but for now i am a keyboard jocky.

what about you guys...are you one aswell (you'll need to destroy that ego before admitting this) or are you generally becoming a full blown Don Juan?

I am delaying my social don juanage. lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In Motion

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Good on you for admitting it! I think there are a lot of KBJs here that are doing just what you are, reading on this forum but not doing anything about it. Fess up people, thinking you are a DJ by joining this board is self dilusional.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Im not...i actually get vag unlike the majority of you...
me>you... haha jk..
 
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LostAndConfused

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Ill admit I'm here more than I should be. The time I spend here I should be spending going out and approaching, at least being social. Nothing I can do about it until college (uni) though.
 
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Warrior74

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these days yah. i guess I am more of KJ than DJ. I had wild times in college and my 20s now I'm trying to straight out things in my life. I'm just here sharing what i've learned so far and learning some new stuff. My dating situation is weird to say the least.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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EricInTheHouse

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I have made major attempts before I joined Sosuave... but I could be doing better.... I dunno.... I'm just feeling more comfortable with myself lately...A definate improvent from 6 months ago.

I'll just say I'm stuck between a Don Juan, and a KBJ.. ATM>
 
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