"Are you a hooker?"

[Solomon]

I've noticed recently in the last year or two, an increase of women who within the first 60 seconds of an approach ask me to buy them a drink. Now these days I approach women far less then I use too, however a few years ago when I first started "Gaming" women rarely asked me to buy them drinks. I attributed this to a few factors

Enitiltment/White-Knight culture--A year ago I harshly yet whittfully rebuked a woman for asking me to get her and her friend a drink. The women confessed to me that her and her friend "hustled" guys for drinks and usually would have their drinks paid for the entire night by white knights. THese women on sosuave standards would be considered 5's at best. Yet they had no issue having guys buy them drinks. Another woman confessed to me she had no problems getting drinks from "suckers". Funny thing is I ran into her a few months after that conversation and she wanted me to buy her drinks as well, I guess she forgot the conversaton

The white knight culture is terrible espeically out in the midwest because so many guys buy chicks drinks. Heck guy's even buy guys a drink. and women take advantage of this

Economy--this ones pretty self-explantory. Women are now hustling men more then ever for free meals and drinks

http://www.learnvest.com/2011/11/woman-uses-dates-for-1200-per-month-of-free-food-332/

^^further proof that if you online date to avoid dinner dates or end up spending big a la Neil :crackup:

anyway no-over analzysing needed. I also attribute this to womens perception of you. I know when I was 30 pounds slimmer women rarely asked if ever. My good looking friends women never ask them to buy you a drink. Maybe cause women know good looking guys don't fall for the okie doke.

next women who ask me to buy her a drink I will respond in kind with

"Are you a hooker?" it's time that men stop supplicating

anyway discuss

 

[pdx1138]

Agreed, It's out of control.


Within the last few days I've decided to stop seeing a new plate, because she always managed to get me to pay for her.

Every time.

I've said it in ways that are subtle and not direct/awkward about 50/50. she's either too dumb to get it or intentionally getting me to pay.
The expenses have been a drink or two, movie tickets. small things. Saturday was the last straw: "I have no money on me" when asked
about her movie ticket.

While I have been paying out small amounts, I've also Railed her a bunch of times.

Hooker.


No MORE! Be gone!

I believe in 50/50 dutch for the most part.
Sure I'll pay for a nice dinner occasionally, if she's loyal and not seeing anyone else, but not every damn time.

 

[bigneil]

I don't buy girls drinks. I ask them to buy me a drink.

I will buy drinks for real hookers though - that is, strippers who I am going to get a table dance from though. You have to watch out for the ones who know of some super-expensive drink, like a $16 Petrone shot that comes with a Red Bull for an extra $6 and they have a special name for it. So I will say "I will buy you a drink that costs $10 or less".

Sorry some of you guys are so broke though. To think I'm famous for having bought a girl dinner (who bought me dinner the next time) is pretty funny. Try picking up the hottest ****tail waitress at a strip bar and taking her for a walk.

 

[Solomon]

I don't buy girls drinks. I ask them to buy me a drink.

I will buy drinks for real hookers though - that is, strippers who I am going to get a table dance from though. You have to watch out for the ones who know of some super-expensive drink, like a $16 Petrone shot that comes with a Red Bull for an extra $6 and they have a special name for it. So I will say "I will buy you a drink that costs $10 or less".

Sorry some of you guys are so broke though. To think I'm famous for having bought a girl dinner (who bought me dinner the next time) is pretty funny. Try picking up the hottest ****tail waitress at a strip bar and taking her for a walk.

I'm still waiting of pics these hot women that you talk about Big Neil



here's a pic of a stripper whose number I got last summer, she ended up in a hotel room with me, although I'd be lying if I said something happend

http://thesoloist1.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/bri.jpg

 

[SgtSplacker]

Bigneil it has a special name because its just juice with no alcohol man. Strippers in Miami do that all the time to sucker you out of more cash. They ask you to buy them a drink at the bar... you know those girls can't drink on the job man. And oddly enough it's the most expensive drink on the menu right? Wake up dude a strippers job is to take your money any way they can. Don't believe me? Next time tell her you want to taste it. Now if she has YOU order the drink for her with out any interaction from her maybe you might be getting into something decent there, but if she asks for it you are getting suckered 100%

 

[bigneil]

You know those girls can't drink on the job man.

Absolutely false.

EDIT: I contacted the barmaid I used to date from the strip club - she said that the girl can get juice is she wants to give a code word, but the dancer doesn't make money on it, the bar makes extra but it's mainly so the dancer can drink for 6 hours and not be trashed. But they can and do drink alcohol if they want.

 

[bigneil]

I'm still waiting of pics these hot women that you talk about Big Neil

Here are 4 women who I dated, holding my favorite girl of all time, my cat:

 

[Zarky]

and what's your total outlay over those four women?

 

[bigneil]

Those photos were taken in: 2001, 2003, 2010, 2012. I dated each one for at least 6 months.

I joined SS in 2006. Zarky was saying earlier how I was never considered someone with actual experience. Pretty funny. That's just a random sample of girls that had my cat in the photo. I used to have parties and those girls brought all their hot friends.

The average Hot or Not rating for those photos was 8.7.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I've noticed recently in the last year or two, an increase of women who within the first 60 seconds of an approach ask me to buy them a drink. Now these days I approach women far less then I use too, however a few years ago when I first started "Gaming" women rarely asked me to buy them drinks. I attributed this to a few factors

Enitiltment/White-Knight culture--A year ago I harshly yet whittfully rebuked a woman for asking me to get her and her friend a drink. The women confessed to me that her and her friend "hustled" guys for drinks and usually would have their drinks paid for the entire night by white knights. THese women on sosuave standards would be considered 5's at best. Yet they had no issue having guys buy them drinks. Another woman confessed to me she had no problems getting drinks from "suckers". Funny thing is I ran into her a few months after that conversation and she wanted me to buy her drinks as well, I guess she forgot the conversaton

The white knight culture is terrible espeically out in the midwest because so many guys buy chicks drinks. Heck guy's even buy guys a drink. and women take advantage of this

Economy--this ones pretty self-explantory. Women are now hustling men more then ever for free meals and drinks

http://www.learnvest.com/2011/11/woman-uses-dates-for-1200-per-month-of-free-food-332/

^^further proof that if you online date to avoid dinner dates or end up spending big a la Neil :crackup:

anyway no-over analzysing needed. I also attribute this to womens perception of you. I know when I was 30 pounds slimmer women rarely asked if ever. My good looking friends women never ask them to buy you a drink. Maybe cause women know good looking guys don't fall for the okie doke.

next women who ask me to buy her a drink I will respond in kind with

"Are you a hooker?" it's time that men stop supplicating

anyway discuss

This culture does not exist in Toronto. Here women are too busy pretending to not see you. :crackup:

Move over here!

 

[Down Low]

Women who work for a bar and try to entice customers into buying them drinks (purportedly in exchange for company) are called "bar girls." This is to distinguish them from "prostitutes" who also work in bars. In reality, all bar girls accept offers of sex for money. Otherwise, the women who hang out in bars are alcoholic slvts.

Once in a while I'll go to bars with friends (and women can't be friends with men). Since coming to this site, I've been paying more attention to my own behavior. When chicks pop the question, I've been ignoring it. I don't even roll my eyes anymore. I used to try to make the wh0re feel like complete trash for doing so, but they are already so they must already feel like complete trash. What do I get out of it?

 

[d!ckmojo]

Yeah, you've just got to pre-empt them by asking them to buy you a drink first.