"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you a beta if you "like" a woman's pic on FB?

mr. kennedy

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It's unreal the amount of guys that "like" a girl's new pic on FB.

Is it a beta move to join the crowd to put your name out there?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skyline

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mr. kennedy said:
It's unreal the amount of guys that "like" a girl's new pic on FB.

Is it a beta move to join the crowd to put your name out there?
If I like a photo or status i'll like it.

Just commenting stuff like "YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL <3" is crossing the line.
 

VladPatton

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It's not if you're a beta or not, it's the action of being like every other chump validating her pic with a Like. That fückin Facebook causes a lot of drama with that. Unless it's a phenomenally fantastic photo worthy of those 1,000 words, don't hit the button. Be different.
 

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Liking a photo is ok, but under no circumstances should we ever try to impress, score with, pickup or even flirt with women on Facebook. It is 100% anti-romantic. Doing so is just putting ourselves in the company of her middle school orbiters. That's why I won't even friend girls I'm having sex with. They will only respect you for being original.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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floydb25

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Only if you like it... Who cares? If you like a bisch in "real life", you have to signify basic interest as well. Can't just stand back, act aloof, and remain passive and nonchalant forever.

For FB, you like what you see... that's the whole point. Doesn't mean ****, and doesn't make you "beta". Actually, not liking or commenting on a favorable photo or post, and not showing interest in people out of fear of rejection, looking "weak", etc is the only "beta" thing. :kick:
 

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the only problem I see in 'liking' a pic of a girl is if you become one of the drones, the slaves who like a pic, within seconds of it appearing, each and every time. there are a couple of girls on my FB who have such guys, its predictable and cringeworthy.
If I like a pic, I also post a short comment, usually humourous with maybe a hint of a neg.
 

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And when there are bunch of tryna be indifferent guys, that tries to be the prize you do hit the button. When there are bunch of guys liking her pictures, you don´t hit the button.
 

Who Dares Win

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I like the pictures of the girls that like mine to return the favour and making sure they still provide me social proof.

I also like the pictures of nice guys which dont get many just to make them feel better and save face.

I think if its beta or not depends on the frame behind it, is that like an attempt to get on her mind?
 

Fatal Jay

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The only way I like a chick pic is when she likes mine

but most of the time I never like or comment on a chick fb at all,too many chumps out there doing it already.

FB is afc city.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I like my guy friends stuff frequently but never women...women frequently.post stupid stuff or just new mundane pics of themselves.
 
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