"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are women you've dated, getting pregnant right after things ended with you?

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I'm starting to see a very strange pattern here. Women I've either gone on dates with, dated for awhile, or were fwb's with, are getting knocked up by the next dude they date after me. I'm not kidding. It's happening quick too it seems. They'll meet someone and a month or two later, BAM!, pregnant.lol :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hockeyfreak79

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Not that I am aware of, it wouldn't surprise me if my most recent one was. She was ready to settle and got deep into baby rabbies at 34. At first she wasn't interested but after 3-4mo all of a sudden she was ready. She was not mommy material not even close.

Anyway, she immediately stop taking the pill after we split and even had a single dad lined up. I told her congrats on the instant family and good luck with that, just what she was looking for. I can't imagine having multiple baby mamas, sh*t that would suck.

I use to date a lot of single mommies so doubtful they are popping out any more. Thanks to SS, I stopped doing that! Be smart fellas wrap it up! Just say NO to betabucks.
 

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I think it could be because the girl is looking for a more serious "provider " type. Her internal clock is telling her it's time to settle down with the beta type. She thought that was you, but it wasn't. The next dude was.
 

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This happened to me with like 3 girls in a row. My friends started calling me good luck chuck but instead of the girl getting married, they got knocked up instead.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've seen this. It seems to happen if you either dump or pass over a chick that's into you. They get scared if they feel they misjudged you're interest (believing you should've fell for them) and quickly latch onto someone "safe."

I knew a chick that was interested in me but I didn't want to mess with her (she had some b-tchy, feminist tendencies) and she felt rejected. Next time I saw her she was with a guy who I knew was well below her SMV, I felt sorry for him because I knew she was going to dump him soon.

She of course did and ended up with a past boyfriend who had patiently waited years to get back with her. They had a kid and got married. Can't imagine what that marriage is going to be like for him long term.

Typically chicks in their late 20s early 30s do this. Most women I've seen that get pregnant at a young age are in low income families.
 

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This happened to me TWICE in the past 2 years! Both girls got pregnant within 1 month of the last time I saw them, to the point where I would have had to think it was mine if I hadn't left them exactly when I did!

One girl is 10 months pregnant. I last saw her 11 months ago. Another girl had a baby 10 months after I last saw her.

I read that a woman increases her risk of survival by having several men who think they might be the father (a rare purpose for her to be promiscuous).

Also, consider my last several girls since 2010 and what became of them after we broke up:

Girl A - 38, Married ex. Already had kid.
Girl B - 43, Married next guy. Already had 2 kids.
Girl C - 36, Married next guy and got pregnant. Now a mother.
Girl D - 22, Married next guy and got pregnant. 10 months pregnant.
Girl E - 22, Loved me but I was too hung up on Girl D and I lost touch.
Girl F - 32, Asked me to marry her (Russian girl). Pregnant within 1 month of my leaving. Now a mother.
Girl G - 44, Tried to steal money from me when I didn't move in with her. Already had kids.
Girl H - 28, Moved in with BF. No kids that I know of. Lost touch since.
Girl I - 25, Lost touch. Already had a kid.
Girl J - 34, Lost touch. Already had kids.
Girl K - 29, Got engaged to next guy. Never wanted kids.
Girl L - 21, Asked me to marry her and dumped me when I wouldn't.
Girl M - Just turned 21. And some girls wonder why I prefer them so young!

Still think sex is their main prerogative?
 

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this happend to 18 months ago and i was actually slightly concerned the kid was mine it was that close

but i kept my mouth shut and havent heard anything from her since so fingers croseed :crackup:
 

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It happens because we are upgraded betas, there is something beta in us thats why you get choosen for settling down but because of game you dont fall for female imperative next guy is beta too but because he doesnt know game by chance he quickly is trapped into pvssy trap.

If not game I would be know married to single mom,but I had game basics and understanding of female imperative so I didnt got caught and got dumped,,this honor went to the next guy who offered her marriage -instantly-,the speed it happened told me the girl had tuned instinct for beta type man.

The women can smell betaness and even smallest remnants like dog sausages, it repels them when they dont need it but attracts when they do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dont fake you dont understand what is this thread about.Getting woman pregnant quickly is beta because you dont make life changing decision with people you hardly know.You are trolling dude.
 

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Yes this happened a couple of times. I took it as a compliment.
 

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I've noticed this pattern last year. I just think it's a mere coincidence.

Or maybe, my presence makes their ovaries explode and they find the nearest beta to impregnate them because they feel they don't deserve me.
 

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JohnyTheArrow said:
The women can smell betaness and even smallest remnants like dog sausages, it repels them when they dont need it but attracts when they do.
Maybe with the men you date honey, but it's not true if we were the one who ended every one of the relationships. Congratulations on turning 15 though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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From this description it sounds like these women want to lock a man down. Whatever is on the womens agenda. It seems like age and whether they already have children or not is a good predictor for what their agenda could entail.b
 

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bigneil said:
Maybe with the men you date honey, but it's not true if we were the one who ended every one of the relationships. Congratulations on turning 15 though.
Live and learn,by the time Im old fart I will known it all.
 
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