Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are women that try too hard a turn-off?

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I've read the forums for a while now and I notice for the most part guys tend to like the "perfect" girls, the ones you see at the club wearing skanky outfits, too much makeup, a fake tan, don't have an inch of body fat on them, and look like they just came back from a party at the Playboy Mansion.

Am I the only one that is turned off by this look? Some of them are attractive to me in strictly a "I want to have a one night stand" with them way, but I'm more drawn to the pretty girl that dresses ok but looks like she isn't trying as hard.

The last girl I dated dressed nice but she shops maybe a few times a year, gets her haircut every two months, and basically wears jeans and baby t-shirts. She wears a little make-up, but for the most part she has that natural beauty thing going on.

Am I the only one that's more drawn to women that would look like a 8-10 even if they were wearing jogging pants, minimal make-up and no fake tan? These women aren't that hard to find either in the right location.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MSwrestler

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I despise fake tans, and overdone make up. Want to know how to tell if the girl is a 10? If she looks just as good as other women with no makeup, i've seen a few of those.
 

Joe Stud

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I'm an equal opportunity DJ, if they look hot... I'm sargin them all. Fake breasts, tans, dyed hair or weaves, fake nails, high pumps, etc. if the package looks hot and makes joe jr. (my pea pea) stir, Im gonna sarge her. this is america, land of opportunity, why discriminate?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Depends what you like. Do you want some wh0re revealing her body for attention. Or a more conservative girl.
 

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TALKING ABOUT YOUR EXES;
This is one of the most mindless things you could ever do. If you are trying to pursue a new relationship and all you can do is talk about your ex , then I say you need to get over your past relationships first. No woman wants to hear details about your ex. This will make them feel like they don't quite measure up and then they're going to start wondering what it is they're doing wrong. It also makes women feel very uncomfortable. Women can be very pessimistic when it comes to things like this. And the last thing you want to do is make her feel this way, right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nah, I think its great that a woman will spend hrs making herself look good for me. Fake tans aren't that attractive tho.

Now who would I rather date? a 7 with +3 makeup or an 8 without makeup, well it would be the latter. Always look at what you'll wake up with.
 

horaholic

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I've been getting turned off by the new look of younger 'scene' girls. Dont get me wrong, it looks good, but its really trendy, and it seems like every younger girl is adopting the style. (where Im at anyway) Like I said, they are very fvckable, but really trendy in my book. Its like they all have the same face. Im talking about girls in their early twenties here, not 16 year olds, although the look the same.

like this (most of these examples are very overdone, though, and not attractive to me)

Its this decades version of hairsprayed super-bangs!
 
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