"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are women sue nice guys more than bad boys

evan12

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I noticed women more false sue the nice guys than a bad buys .
even in devoirce , the much man is nice and quite the more the wife will be aggressive with him .
I started thinking if a man get married he have to show in indirect way that he is the kind of men who take the revenge even after years so the wife will not risk in making him angry in court room because she will afraid of revenge .
I think that is why they dont play these games with bad boys they think bad boy will revenge later and they will live in worry
I know "bad boy" and "nice guy" PUA terms , but I just want to make my idea clear

what do you think
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think you have a point - it goes back to the nice guy being a pushover, she knows she can walk all over him.

Got any stats/ evidence of this? or is it a gut feeling?
 

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Got any stats/ evidence of this? or is it a gut feeling?
I just found by many cases when man judged harshly by woman he was kind of submissive quite man that you cant imagine him getting angry .
I also was reading in article of how to avoid false rape that if you are nerd or geek and have sex with girl there is a higher chance to accuse you in false rape than a normal guy and this was taken from statistic .
 

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This may be a legitimate advantage of being a bad boy. I know a lot of women who had a child with a guy and let them out of paying child support - just because the guy was such a dirtbag that they didn't want him around her kid or have any say in raising him.

Of course you might say that a nice guy would want to support his child and not give up on spending time with him anyway.
 

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lol then again if he is a true bad boy and she actually married him, she woudln't want a divorce anyway so it's all a moot point.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol then again if he is a true bad boy and she actually married him, she woudln't want a divorce anyway so it's all a moot point.
I dont mean by bad boy the cyclist one type only , let me say a man who can be dangerous and look after revenge if some one hurt him.
 

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I remember a man from my childhood who had his wife cheats on him while he was on a "peace mission", they then divorced and despite her fault she managed to get the home probably because there was no evidence of the cheating.

At some point the man went there at night and few weeks later she left the city and he got the house, my mother and her friends were scared of him following that.

Awfully I was very young, about 6 or 7 and didnt have the chance to talk with that man otherwise I would have asked exactly what happened.
He seemed a nice man for what I recall, even helped people with his pick-up vehicle, and looked very friendly when he was at the bar with his coworkers from the base.

Anyway I swear on my blood, I would rather harm a woman and her family than being her slave just because the government is siding with her, all girls I date know that if I have the chance to harm someone who hurt me I will do.

This apparently saved me a lot of sh1t from girls who dumped me, none of them badmouthed me or spread jokes about me with common friends.
 

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backbreaker said:
lol then again if he is a true bad boy and she actually married him, she woudln't want a divorce anyway so it's all a moot point.
Nah, despite what they tell you here, most women will not put up with a man who cheats on her indefinitely. She may put up with it for awhile if he's "alpha" enough, but at some point she's going to get sick of it and kick him to the curb.
 

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zekko said:
Nah, despite what they tell you here, most women will not put up with a man who cheats on her indefinitely. She may put up with it for awhile if he's "alpha" enough, but at some point she's going to get sick of it and kick him to the curb.
I agree. She'll kick him to the curb for another man that "out alpha's" the other in her eyes. It's female hypergamy at play. If a female is willing to be with an alpha she must come to terms with the fact that she's going to have to "share" him with other women.
 

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evan12 said:
I noticed women more false sue the nice guys than a bad buys .
even in devoirce , the much man is nice and quite the more the wife will be aggressive with him .
I started thinking if a man get married he have to show in indirect way that he is the kind of men who take the revenge even after years so the wife will not risk in making him angry in court room because she will afraid of revenge .
I think that is why they dont play these games with bad boys they think bad boy will revenge later and they will live in worry
I know "bad boy" and "nice guy" PUA terms , but I just want to make my idea clear

what do you think
I agree
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zekko said:
This may be a legitimate advantage of being a bad boy. I know a lot of women who had a child with a guy and let them out of paying child support - just because the guy was such a dirtbag that they didn't want him around her kid or have any say in raising him.

Of course you might say that a nice guy would want to support his child and not give up on spending time with him anyway.
I have seen that too.
 
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