"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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... are women really like that?

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The Pedantical said:
....The girl was one of those "no sex until mariage" types, probably because of religion or something. Well, to make a long story short, it turned out she was of the "no sex with you until mariage, but sex with lots of other people anyway" type. She was sleeping with scores of other guys, most of which she hadn't known for more than a couple of hours. She was the "party slut," a couple of beers and she starts acting like a cheap hooker and lets guys touch her in front of everyone.


I really don't understand it. What was she looking for with my friend? He's a good-looking guy, in great shape, a good conversationalist, etc, but for some reason she treated him like a piece of junk while sleeping with guys who weren't worth a toe of his foot. It's not like some poor girl who was after a rich guy's money, she was the rich one not my friend. It doesn't make any sense whatsoever

I don't have too much experience with women other than what I read here and the few I've known, but this story really blows me away. My friend is 10 times the "man" that I am, and even him gets played out like that.

Are most women really like that, or is that girl just a disturbing exception? Because if that's the way it's supposed to be, you can't let your guard down for even one second with these girls. :down:
Read this thread, you will understand.!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151947
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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