"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are women on Tinder more attractive than the ones on Plenty of Fish or OKCupid?

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I should say that I have never had a Tinder account - as it seems that anyone over 30 has to pay, and I only have a dumbphone, LOL - and I only use an OKCupid account when I'm expatting it in Eastern Europe, but I did dig around a Plenty of Fish account years ago, quickly giving it up as the women there were putrid looking.

I presume that Plenty of Fish is as bad as it's ever been, and that OKCupid is just as bad (it's pretty decent in Eastern Europe), but I wonder if the selectability that women have on Tinder makes it something that attractive women want to use it whereas such women would not use those other 2 websites.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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People in general are just getting lazier and lazier by the day. From what I've seen the swipe apps are winning. Woman don't want to fill out profile pages and all that crap. Bumble is the only 1 I'm pulling from currently. Woman only get messages from guys they message first. Otherwise these other apps they are just BOMBED with messages and it's just too much for them to handle. Who the hell woud want to weed through 50-100 messages? Yeah okay attention ***** sure. Bumble they can somewhat control it by only messaging the guys they want to hear from. Just my 2 cents.

It's Spring here so they are out in full force and there are some really hungry 1s. Instant gratification, go get em!
 

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Use Bumble for quality, use Tinder for quantity, get off OLD if you want to [consistently]* get laid.

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I should say that I have never had a Tinder account - as it seems that anyone over 30 has to pay, and I only have a dumbphone, LOL - and I only use an OKCupid account when I'm expatting it in Eastern Europe, but I did dig around a Plenty of Fish account years ago, quickly giving it up as the women there were putrid looking.

I presume that Plenty of Fish is as bad as it's ever been, and that OKCupid is just as bad (it's pretty decent in Eastern Europe), but I wonder if the selectability that women have on Tinder makes it something that attractive women want to use it whereas such women would not use those other 2 websites.
Actually, I keep seeing the same faces of the same chronically single women on all of these sites. It's like "Well, I'm not having any luck on OK Cupid, lemme try POF....Dammit, same women there, too"

Thing is, I already emailed these same women, and repeat emails to them will likely again be ignored or if they are irritated enough at seeing me email them again...block me.

Lose-lose.
 

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People in general are just getting lazier and lazier by the day. From what I've seen the swipe apps are winning. Woman don't want to fill out profile pages and all that crap. Bumble is the only 1 I'm pulling from currently.
Yep...so often I see on POF where they would upload a few photos, and say, "Ask me anything" or just "Ask me" in their description...and nothing more. SO POF has become the Tinder/Bumble of 2017.

Some would even say, "I don't like writing about myself, so ask me whatever."

I've been known to send them an email. "If I ask, will you even answer?"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where I live the women On Bumble are the hottest than Tinder

POF is absolutley frigging trash
 

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Where I live the women On Bumble are the hottest than Tinder

POF is absolutley frigging trash
Yeah, it's more like "Plenty of Whales" lol. If they are thin, they look like a trailer park hooker with 500 miles of hard road on them.
 

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When I was on Tinder I pulled a lot of pretty pvssy,met my current LTR on Tinder,now that was 19 bucks well spent (only had it for a month) never used Bumble,but I hear it gives all the power to the women to choose,now what self respecting DJ would use that sh!t...
 

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heeey
When I was on Tinder I pulled a lot of pretty pvssy,met my current LTR on Tinder,now that was 19 bucks well spent (only had it for a month) never used Bumble,but I hear it gives all the power to the women to choose,now what self respecting DJ would use that sh!t...
curious to know where you live, you must be a good looking guy.

Telling ya if you good looking online dating is like shooting fish in a barrel
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sorry.I have a top secret personal information policy,but your right about one thing I AM fvckin smoking hot.....or so I have been told,OLD always has been easy for me it does't matter what site it is.
 

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When I was on Tinder I pulled a lot of pretty pvssy,met my current LTR on Tinder,now that was 19 bucks well spent (only had it for a month) never used Bumble,but I hear it gives all the power to the women to choose,now what self respecting DJ would use that sh!t...
Actually Bumble seems to be a better class of women (by far) than the others and since they have to reach out first, it eliminates the very low interest chicks and mass messaging to get a few responses.

I'm killing it on there.....
 
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From my experience

Bumble = The hottest women

Tinder = A lot of hot girls but getting uglier by the day, Tinder Plus is definitely worth it though

Plenty Of Fish = Post wall women, some MILFs, a lot of recent divorcees, and tons of trashy women in general.

Coffee Meets Bagel = Post Wall women and homely women.

OkCupid = Feminists and ugly women as a whole along with a handful of cute tumblr/hipster girl types, worthless unless you're in NYC
 

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From my experience

Bumble = The hottest women

Tinder = A lot of hot girls but getting uglier by the day, Tinder Plus is definitely worth it though

Plenty Of Fish = Post wall women, some MILFs, a lot of recent divorcees, and tons of trashy women in general.

Coffee Meets Bagel = Post Wall women and homely women.

OkCupid = Feminists and ugly women as a whole along with a handful of cute tumblr/hipster girl types, worthless unless you're in NYC
You forgot Craigs List
 
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