Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are women more racist and political than men?

El Payaso

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At least, openly racist and political. I see some white women put things in their Tinder profile like "If you're white, swipe left" or "black men *heart eye emoji*"

I'll see another say something like "If you voted for Trump, swipe left".

I'll see a black girl put in her profile "#swirllife" or "Sorry but I don't do black guys".

Maybe I'm unaware of it on the male side but it seems to me like most men have certain qualities they like in a woman like submissive, kind, beautiful etc and don't really mind which skin the woman comes in. They might have some racial preferences but they're not hard-lined into dating only one race.

On the other hand, I remember men like @Tenacity, @Listen_to_Olly, @Good Gao etc have a preference towards either black or white girls.

Another question is are some of you as hard-lined as the women I mentioned above or you don't really care what race the woman is as long as she has the qualities you seek.

Please, don't descend this into race bashing and what not. I'm just trying to get a better understanding. Thank you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Building_and_Loan

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Racist probably not, but politically yes. I've seen the "Trump supporters, please swipe left!" countless times on tons of girls' profiles, and just roll my eyes because they usually look like they should be thankful any guy is giving them attention whatsoever.
 

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Women care more about status, money, power, or making a statement. Men care more about looks and feminine qualities. Women will date men they aren't even attracted to because she wants to fit in with a group of people or pvss other people off. For example, white women going through a black man phase to pvss off their daddies or white society. Or, Asian women that will only date white men because they see white men as a status symbol.
 
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For men, a hot girl is a hot girl no matter where she is from. Even guys who aren't into black girls will sleep with a hot one like Kerry Washington or Rashida Jones (mixed but still counts as black in the US). As guys, we follow our instinct and go for what we are attracted to. It goes back to the days of the hunters and gatherers where men had to get out there and try new tactics while women just bundled up together in a tribe.

Women simply care significantly more about social perception, social image, and status than men do. A lot of this plays out into women being "racist" but really, their racial preferences should tell you something about society itself because women are simply reacting by having their racial preferences.

Women do this because they have to, it is in their nature. Back during the days of hunters and gatherers, women could not afford to take risks and get with "outsiders" as they might be intruders. Same here in modern society, women avoid races that are perceived in a negative way in their area.

As my good friend @skinnyguy will tell you, Indian men are loathed in Northern California and white women from that part of the country hate them more than white women from any other part of the country, same is true for cities like Toronto.

Women care a great deal about social status and don't often go for what they are physically attracted to. That is why in NYC you will see skinnyfat hipsters with hot girls, because of that very thing.

So women aren't racist, they just care more about social image and status which plays out in them acting in racist ways when really, it should tell you something about the society they are in.

If women in Northern California and Toronto aren't going for Indian guys, that should tell you that it isn't just dating where Indian men are struggling, they are likely viewed as lower status by most people in that society which results in hot girls there not wanting them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are women this or that?
Some are, some are not.

There I answered every question starting with "are women".
 

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I would say no.

But women are more concerned about social image than men. The rest should explain itself.
 

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At least, openly racist and political. I see some white women put things in their Tinder profile like "If you're white, swipe left" or "black men *heart eye emoji*"

I'll see another say something like "If you voted for Trump, swipe left".

I'll see a black girl put in her profile "#swirllife" or "Sorry but I don't do black guys".

Maybe I'm unaware of it on the male side but it seems to me like most men have certain qualities they like in a woman like submissive, kind, beautiful etc and don't really mind which skin the woman comes in. They might have some racial preferences but they're not hard-lined into dating only one race.

On the other hand, I remember men like @Tenacity, @Listen_to_Olly, @Good Gao etc have a preference towards either black or white girls.

Another question is are some of you as hard-lined as the women I mentioned above or you don't really care what race the woman is as long as she has the qualities you seek.

Please, don't descend this into race bashing and what not. I'm just trying to get a better understanding. Thank you.
I have a preference for a certain "look". I like a cute face, thick thighs, thick a.ss, and big titties. This shape is usually associated with black women, but there are some white/Asian women that have this body type but not that many.

The white girls I've messed around with had this body shape.
 
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Who Dares Win

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Diplomacy is something you learn and develop when you are accountable of your words and action.
Someone is held more accountable than someone else.
 

El Payaso

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Women aren't more political at all. When you actually have a proper discussion with them, it very quickly becomes apparent that they haven't thought their ideas through.
Very true. It's usually more feelings based and going with the herd type mentality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd say they are generally less logical and more emotional, so they tend to argue more about politics and their other views and principles, like they mean something, and the dumber person is, the more arrogant and intolerant they are in general.
 

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Racism is socially acceptable when it comes to dating preferences. Am I right?
 

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Women tend to be more left-wing in their views, and this site for guys who can't get girls is very right-wing. I doubt that is a coincidence.
guys who can't get girls think they'll be a king in a ultra conservative patriarchal society because of the lack of rights for women and the nostalgia from grandparents. They don't realize how much rougher life is in patriarchal societies compared to what they live in now. These guys are willing to move/travel to third world countries for pvssy because of this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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