"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are women more choosier than men?

LADawg49

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Today in my anthropology class, the professor was havin a discussion on whether women are more choosier than men when it comes to mating. She said that if a girl really wants to have sex, all she got to do is go to a bar and she will have no trouble getting some. Whereas she said a guy can't do that. Would u guys agree with it? I would agree with that but to a certain extent. I believe the hot attractive ones would have no trouble findin any man wantin to put his di-k inside her, however with those who are average looking, it is harder for them to find a man to have sex with her(not saying they can't). With guys, if he is either rich, handsome, or follows the pointers from the DJ Bible, he should have no problem finding sex but if a guy doesn't fit one of those three profiles it is tough. Would u guys agree?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Scrumtulescence

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Your professor has obviously never heard of ugly/fat girls.

A girl has to have good looks. A guy has to have balls (and a bit of luck and/or alchohol in the girl if we're talking about being able to go to a bar for a guarateed lay).
 

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Sorry to tell you this guys, but even fat, ugly girls get laid more than average looking guys. All these bytches have to do is go to a bar, and some lame azz drunk will try and pick them up. He may regret it after he sobers up, but it's still much easier for women of any looks to get sex than it is for guys.
 

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Of course they are. Women maintain a lemgthy list of conditions for achieving their intimacy, this is the natural selection process meant to determine the male best able to provide for her security. A guy has to have looks, status, financial stability, confidence, humor, decisiveness, ambition, understanding, be a good listener, he has to be a commodity that women will compete for. All of these conditions are set in differing priorities and in differing measures according to her ability to attract men.

Men have one condition for intimacy - physical attractiveness. She's got to be physically arousing to get his intimacy. This arousal might be altered by establishing operations such as intoxication or deprivation, but it's still his only condition.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Basically, women cant just get any guy, but they can get "any" guy, if you are a don juan you will know that you wont give into these women creatures that think they can get any guy at a bar if they want 2, most other AFC guys will be all too happy to do whatever they want for this woman. If you are a Don Juan you will reject these type of women, this is something I like doing, why must I let these women dominate me? If they are hot, Ill play them. If they ugly, Ill use them to get me drinks...But their is no way I will be buying them drinks just so they will sleep with me? No. And to further add...men will take most girls that come their way anything that has some good feature in a club, a man will take, a DON JUAN wont though.
 

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Re:

The women might get to choose who gets sex, but the men choose who they decide to provide fatherly duties for.


Which do you consider more important, both in the short and long-term?



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That's bull**** though.

Girls have an even harder time to approach cuz most guys aren't used to that.

If she just sits and waits yeah she will prolly get approached.But women who are approach are usually met with confusion.
 

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Pffft,..heheh,..

Yeah, all those guys in the strip clubs look real confused when a girl approaches them.

C'Mon,...:rolleyes:
 
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