"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are women hung up on age for the same reasons we are?

StevenR

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Is the real reason women do not want to date significantly older men, 6yrs+, the same reasons that guys don't want to date older women? Basically because of wrinkles and other signs of aging that make a guy lose his attractiveness to younger women? Or is it something different for them, more social where with the guys the reasons are more biological?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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STR8UP

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StevenR said:
Is the real reason women do not want to date significantly older men, 6yrs+, the same reasons that guys don't want to date older women? Basically because of wrinkles and other signs of aging that make a guy lose his attractiveness to younger women? Or is it something different for them, more social where with the guys the reasons are more biological?
What planet do you live on dude?

I'm 37 in a few weeks and I'm gonna be hanging out with a 24 yr old weekend after next. My last LTR was 21. I've fukked, dated, or messed around with several women in the 20-26 category over the past couple of years.

Maybe it's because i don't have too many wrinkles.....
 

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6 Plus years doesn't mean sh1t. Your profile states your 34 you should have no problem dating girls 28-34 if you look like your age. If you take care of yourself and look younger you could even pull 22 year olds.

My opinion is that every man that has good game can get girls up to 10 years younger than him on a regular basis. After the 10 year mark than it gets a bit trickier. I have fvcked girls 10 plus years younger than me, but I look young and dress fashionable.

If your good looking and take care of yourself than you won't have many problems attracting younger woman. Age is a factor but you could still pull young tail. I have fvcked quite a few younger woman but when it comes to having a LTR with them than thats a different story.

Woman do not want to date there dad however. If she is 21 and you are 40 than they will probably not date you unless you really stand out or are a celebrity.

Hell my game has sucked sh1t over the last 4 months but I have quite a few experiences of dating woman 7 years - 11yearsyounger than me from the ages of 28-32. Hell I should post my past experiences in the mature man forum. I think I will start a thread within the next week of all my experiences with younger woman. This will be a tell all thread. I have some good stories.
 

SoCalMike

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yeah if you look really old, lots of wrinkles and grey hair the average 21yo isn't going to go for you.

10 year age gap is normal though, many many guys (myself included) date girls 8-10 years younger.

my last 2 LTRs were both 10 years younger.

keep in mind I work out 5x a week too. My body def doesn't look old.
 
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