"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are women becoming unbearably leftist/radical?

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Something I've noticed in the real and online dating world.

It's astounding how many of them I come across that are STILL glazed over Obamanauts (mind you I'm not a republican, but I don't like radicals on either end) every profile I come across is littered with NPR, "must read the New York times", Green, Vegetarian/Vegan, Hybrid, Progressive, hate football, liberal arts, I DON'T ACCEPT INTOLERANCE TOWARDS GAYS!.

They are so militant that even a mere funny quip about someone on the left (I had one snap at me because I made a funny joke about Michelle Obamas prognathous jaw) is grounds for castration.

I know they've always been to the left of men, but when did it get to the point that they went completely ballistic like this?

It's not to the point where I'm even looking to marry one of 'em, it's that these women aren't even FUN anymore
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women have always been left-leaning. The only recent change is that more women than ever are adopting (what used to be) radical feminism. They speak of "slut-shaming" as if it's an actual social issue and "rape culture" as if it is distinct from the violence-obsessed culture we have in America. These ideas were mostly unheard of and considered "fringe" only ten years ago.

Contrary to what you say, I've definitely noticed an increase in the number of women who openly enjoy and possess the ability to intelligently discuss football.
 

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These women seem to surround themselves with the most insidious emaciated urban hipster guys, as well as their Johnny Weir type gay guy friends. They live in an urban bubble. It's to the point now that they hate men based on what they hear about men. Because most of them have never even met a real man in their lives
 

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If your finding all the same type of women. Maybe stop going to the same types of places to find them?

Not "all" women are as you say. Just gotta participate in other avenues of life to find different avenue'd people.

Epi
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rum said:
These women seem to surround themselves with the most insidious emaciated urban hipster guys, as well as their Johnny Weir type gay guy friends. They live in an urban bubble. It's to the point now that they hate men based on what they hear about men. Because most of them have never even met a real man in their lives
This is why you need to avoid meeting bishes who live in hipster neighborhoods. Look for chicks in suburbs or yuppie neighborhoods. You're better off meeting white-collar types. I know career-oriented women get bashed on SoSuave a lot, but their political views tend to be tempered because they actually deal with real stress and have actual jobs, and (surprisingly) they tend to be less pretentious than their more Bohemian sisters.

Then again, if all you're looking to do is lay down some pipe, who cares? There's a somewhat perverse satisfaction in pumping and dumping hyper-leftist/feminist chicks after all.
 

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No one can take a funny remark nowadays. Mr. Zero Fücks is your best friend. He eats beef, watches raunchy stand up, and elbows you in the ribs when a hot chick passes by.
 

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rum said:
every profile I come across is littered with NPR, "must read the New York times", Green, Vegetarian/Vegan, Hybrid, Progressive, hate football, liberal arts, I DON'T ACCEPT INTOLERANCE TOWARDS GAYS!
Actually, most women where I live are big NFL fans.

Most people I know don't really care if someone is gay or not, but you're right, women seem to want to make a show of it. Also, a woman I know told me the other day that she wished she had a (male) gay friend. Not sure why.

I don't find that too many women are that interested in politics, they just want their entitlements and pro-female advantages.
 

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zekko said:
Actually, most women where I live are big NFL fans.

Most people I know don't really care if someone is gay or not, but you're right, women seem to want to make a show of it. Also, a woman I know told me the other day that she wished she had a (male) gay friend. Not sure why.

Well said. I have no problem with gay people. I'm a live and let live kind of guy. But a woman INSISTING on having or finding a gay friend is ridiculous. Friendships should be natural. Two people click, and that's it. The guy is a human being, not a fashion accessory or the latest cell phone to show off to your friends. If you click, fine. But don't go hunting for a certain type of friend like it's a status symbol. That's silly.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women often, though of course not always, follow the trend. Follow what's cool. Follow what's new. Follow what's smart. Follow what's next.

Contemporary "Liberalism" which is really just corporate, centrist-right, third way giveaways for big business with a tepid progressive social agenda attached is what's hot and what's next. It's where the momentum is. It's sexy. And, to be honest, it's smart. The Republican party and conservatism in general is bereft of ideas and new policies outside of tax cuts and being aggressively Christian and White. Something that it even admits in honest moments. I suspect it will peter out once the younger, racially mixed, less religious generation comes into it's own to be replaced possibly by libertarianism but likely by the Democratic Party while a new Social Democracy part forms on the left.

As someone who is a Democrat nationally but votes a split ticket locally (Philadelphia is 99% Democrat and the Republicans around here are far saner than those in, say, Texas and a good check on Democrats) I really hope the Republican Party or Libertarians get their stuff together. I want real competition.
 

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Women make natural leftists for several reasons and regardless of ideology, their political views tend to be naive, uninformed and superficially self-absorbed. I learned long ago never to discuss politics with women until knowing them a good long time, and then hardly ever. I find men have a 1:5 chance of having a rationally based political POV whether it agrees with mine or not. Maybe 1:50 women. Same thing with musical taste. Most women get their music and politics from formative BFs or family, almost never self-actualized IME.
 

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Liberals shove the fag agenda down out throats. I'm anti homosexual. Two guys have sex with each other is gross. For ****ing it doesn't matter but I ain't never dating a liberal Obama kool aid drinker.
 

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VladPatton said:
No one can take a funny remark nowadays. Mr. Zero Fücks is your best friend. He eats beef, watches raunchy stand up, and elbows you in the ribs when a hot chick passes by.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to VladPatton again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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