Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are women becoming unbearably leftist/radical?

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Something I've noticed in the real and online dating world.

It's astounding how many of them I come across that are STILL glazed over Obamanauts (mind you I'm not a republican, but I don't like radicals on either end) every profile I come across is littered with NPR, "must read the New York times", Green, Vegetarian/Vegan, Hybrid, Progressive, hate football, liberal arts, I DON'T ACCEPT INTOLERANCE TOWARDS GAYS!.

They are so militant that even a mere funny quip about someone on the left (I had one snap at me because I made a funny joke about Michelle Obamas prognathous jaw) is grounds for castration.

I know they've always been to the left of men, but when did it get to the point that they went completely ballistic like this?

It's not to the point where I'm even looking to marry one of 'em, it's that these women aren't even FUN anymore
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women have always been left-leaning. The only recent change is that more women than ever are adopting (what used to be) radical feminism. They speak of "slut-shaming" as if it's an actual social issue and "rape culture" as if it is distinct from the violence-obsessed culture we have in America. These ideas were mostly unheard of and considered "fringe" only ten years ago.

Contrary to what you say, I've definitely noticed an increase in the number of women who openly enjoy and possess the ability to intelligently discuss football.
 

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These women seem to surround themselves with the most insidious emaciated urban hipster guys, as well as their Johnny Weir type gay guy friends. They live in an urban bubble. It's to the point now that they hate men based on what they hear about men. Because most of them have never even met a real man in their lives
 

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If your finding all the same type of women. Maybe stop going to the same types of places to find them?

Not "all" women are as you say. Just gotta participate in other avenues of life to find different avenue'd people.

Epi
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rum said:
These women seem to surround themselves with the most insidious emaciated urban hipster guys, as well as their Johnny Weir type gay guy friends. They live in an urban bubble. It's to the point now that they hate men based on what they hear about men. Because most of them have never even met a real man in their lives
This is why you need to avoid meeting bishes who live in hipster neighborhoods. Look for chicks in suburbs or yuppie neighborhoods. You're better off meeting white-collar types. I know career-oriented women get bashed on SoSuave a lot, but their political views tend to be tempered because they actually deal with real stress and have actual jobs, and (surprisingly) they tend to be less pretentious than their more Bohemian sisters.

Then again, if all you're looking to do is lay down some pipe, who cares? There's a somewhat perverse satisfaction in pumping and dumping hyper-leftist/feminist chicks after all.
 

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No one can take a funny remark nowadays. Mr. Zero Fücks is your best friend. He eats beef, watches raunchy stand up, and elbows you in the ribs when a hot chick passes by.
 

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rum said:
every profile I come across is littered with NPR, "must read the New York times", Green, Vegetarian/Vegan, Hybrid, Progressive, hate football, liberal arts, I DON'T ACCEPT INTOLERANCE TOWARDS GAYS!
Actually, most women where I live are big NFL fans.

Most people I know don't really care if someone is gay or not, but you're right, women seem to want to make a show of it. Also, a woman I know told me the other day that she wished she had a (male) gay friend. Not sure why.

I don't find that too many women are that interested in politics, they just want their entitlements and pro-female advantages.
 

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zekko said:
Actually, most women where I live are big NFL fans.

Most people I know don't really care if someone is gay or not, but you're right, women seem to want to make a show of it. Also, a woman I know told me the other day that she wished she had a (male) gay friend. Not sure why.

Well said. I have no problem with gay people. I'm a live and let live kind of guy. But a woman INSISTING on having or finding a gay friend is ridiculous. Friendships should be natural. Two people click, and that's it. The guy is a human being, not a fashion accessory or the latest cell phone to show off to your friends. If you click, fine. But don't go hunting for a certain type of friend like it's a status symbol. That's silly.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women often, though of course not always, follow the trend. Follow what's cool. Follow what's new. Follow what's smart. Follow what's next.

Contemporary "Liberalism" which is really just corporate, centrist-right, third way giveaways for big business with a tepid progressive social agenda attached is what's hot and what's next. It's where the momentum is. It's sexy. And, to be honest, it's smart. The Republican party and conservatism in general is bereft of ideas and new policies outside of tax cuts and being aggressively Christian and White. Something that it even admits in honest moments. I suspect it will peter out once the younger, racially mixed, less religious generation comes into it's own to be replaced possibly by libertarianism but likely by the Democratic Party while a new Social Democracy part forms on the left.

As someone who is a Democrat nationally but votes a split ticket locally (Philadelphia is 99% Democrat and the Republicans around here are far saner than those in, say, Texas and a good check on Democrats) I really hope the Republican Party or Libertarians get their stuff together. I want real competition.
 

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Women make natural leftists for several reasons and regardless of ideology, their political views tend to be naive, uninformed and superficially self-absorbed. I learned long ago never to discuss politics with women until knowing them a good long time, and then hardly ever. I find men have a 1:5 chance of having a rationally based political POV whether it agrees with mine or not. Maybe 1:50 women. Same thing with musical taste. Most women get their music and politics from formative BFs or family, almost never self-actualized IME.
 

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Liberals shove the fag agenda down out throats. I'm anti homosexual. Two guys have sex with each other is gross. For ****ing it doesn't matter but I ain't never dating a liberal Obama kool aid drinker.
 

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VladPatton said:
No one can take a funny remark nowadays. Mr. Zero Fücks is your best friend. He eats beef, watches raunchy stand up, and elbows you in the ribs when a hot chick passes by.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to VladPatton again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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