I noticed when I would post here in the past asking for advice on girls, just but giving out some details, alot of you guys gave me really good advice and would even predict what would happen with this girl and every single time with the passing of time you guys have been right. It leads me to believe that sexual/romantic psychology in woman is quite predictable when reading signs and clues. Definitely going to become an active user of this forum and will be reading the DJ Bible.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Are woman and relationships completely predictable
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RangerMIke
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If you are ABSOLUTELY honest with yourself and HONEST in your assessment of the woman's attitude, then yes... everything that will happen is very predictable.
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If you see things from a third person perspective without your emotions and bias being a factor towards your rational mind, then you will find not only women, but life in general to be predictable.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Amilz said:
Play chess as a hobby, and practice Zen meditation.
Relationships are predictable because people are predictable.
You can always count on people to do what they believe is in their own best interest.. physically, emotionally, economically, etc.
And if you ask me.. women are more similar AND more predictable than men. I find the vast majority of women to be exactly the same and do the same predictable sh!t as the woman before and the woman before that. Even the ones I've met who I thought were different would eventually prove to be the same in time.
Any diversity in women comes from their different cultural or sub-cultural backgrounds. However, you can always count on women to either follow the status quo of their culture OR whatever they believe is "hip" or stylish.
You can always count on people to do what they believe is in their own best interest.. physically, emotionally, economically, etc.
And if you ask me.. women are more similar AND more predictable than men. I find the vast majority of women to be exactly the same and do the same predictable sh!t as the woman before and the woman before that. Even the ones I've met who I thought were different would eventually prove to be the same in time.
Any diversity in women comes from their different cultural or sub-cultural backgrounds. However, you can always count on women to either follow the status quo of their culture OR whatever they believe is "hip" or stylish.
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Funny enough, my girlfriend and I have talked about this, and SHE came up with an interesting quote:
"All women are the same... in that all women THINK they are different from each other."
Amazing, right? They try to sell us on the fact that all humans are individuals, and therefore every woman you meet will be different... but, as those of us on the boards here who have dated numerous women can tell you, they generally fall for the same stuff.
The SECRET, then... is to make each woman FEEL like the way you're treating her is different from ALL the other women you've dated. Even if it's NOT true, they want to BELIEVE it's true.
Perfect example: for first dates, I would meet up with women at one of three places: coffee shop, restaurant, or picnic. For second dates, I'd ALWAYS go in for the kiss, and quite a few times I'd end up hooking up with them on date #2 as well. When this would happen, the women would say something like, "wow, that was intense - I've never experienced that before!" Now, in my head, I'd be thinking, "I definitely HAVE experienced something like this before, or BETTER..." but I wouldn't verbalize it. Why? Because, in the moment, they want to BELIEVE that we are BOTH experiencing something we haven't done before - and who am I to ruin it for them with commentary like, "Well, actually, you're the x-numbered girl I've done this type of thing with. But hey, good for you!"
But yea... once you discover the pattern of attracting women, it all becomes very routine and easier to do because they are, in fact, so predictable in what they'll respond to the best.
"All women are the same... in that all women THINK they are different from each other."
Amazing, right? They try to sell us on the fact that all humans are individuals, and therefore every woman you meet will be different... but, as those of us on the boards here who have dated numerous women can tell you, they generally fall for the same stuff.
The SECRET, then... is to make each woman FEEL like the way you're treating her is different from ALL the other women you've dated. Even if it's NOT true, they want to BELIEVE it's true.
Perfect example: for first dates, I would meet up with women at one of three places: coffee shop, restaurant, or picnic. For second dates, I'd ALWAYS go in for the kiss, and quite a few times I'd end up hooking up with them on date #2 as well. When this would happen, the women would say something like, "wow, that was intense - I've never experienced that before!" Now, in my head, I'd be thinking, "I definitely HAVE experienced something like this before, or BETTER..." but I wouldn't verbalize it. Why? Because, in the moment, they want to BELIEVE that we are BOTH experiencing something we haven't done before - and who am I to ruin it for them with commentary like, "Well, actually, you're the x-numbered girl I've done this type of thing with. But hey, good for you!"
But yea... once you discover the pattern of attracting women, it all becomes very routine and easier to do because they are, in fact, so predictable in what they'll respond to the best.
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Women=herd mentality.
Do not believe me? Just check POF or OKCupid profiles.They all "love to laught,netflix and travel".
Do not believe me? Just check POF or OKCupid profiles.They all "love to laught,netflix and travel".
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DING DING DING DING lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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How long you been meditating for bro? I been on and off for a year, can never get it down consistently
Correct.YawataNoKami said:
As I said in another thread... women are along for the ride. In France the women sided with the Nazi's after they were conquered.
Women go with the WINNER and they don't care who the winner is. Obama, Hitler, Tony Soprano, doesn't matter. Women will sheepishly follow the dominant status quo. This is why the white knight is the dumbest person alive.
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PeasantPlayer said:
I've been practicing zen for about three years now I would say. Sometimes I would visit a zen hall in the local area and meditate with the masters which last about 45 minutes a session. Lately however, I've been a bit busy and I've hadn't had time to sit down and clear my mind. I try my best to be consciously aware of myself and my environment when I'm doing my every day routine.
I should start again on my off days though.