Attractive women almost always chose the man they want to fall in love with because they have so many options. So most of the time when a hot girl falls in love with a you, if she's very attractive its probably genuine. The majority of men however do not get to pick and chose, and will fall in love with the first super hot chick that you have a connection with. Problem is guys confuse their attachment and desperation with love.
You guys have all been there, you really like a chick and she wants to plan a life with you. She wants marriage, kids, or to move in together. But you in the back of your mind just don't picture you spending the rest of your life with her...your just with her because she's the best you think you can do.
That's not love brother... She on the other hand is legitimately in love with you....not for long though. Women have a sixth sense....and can pick up when a man is truly in love with them. And when that 6th sense kicks in and she catches on she will become angry and either dump your ass or cheat on you. She may even convince herself she's not attracted to you because she can't handle the fact that your rejecting her. Remember Not wanting to settle down and spend the rest of your life with her IS rejecting her in her mind.
My advice to those guys in serious relationships is to not worry about playing stupid games, don't worry about courting her or being alpha enough. If you truly love a woman being alpha will become automatic. IF you've been dating a chick 6 months or a year and she's trying to have a life with you, but you just wanna keep her around to bang her, sure go along with it....tell her what she wants to hear. Just know that your time is limited and there is NOTHING you can do about it, because you were never in love with her from the start. And once she realizes this your ****ed.
You guys have all been there, you really like a chick and she wants to plan a life with you. She wants marriage, kids, or to move in together. But you in the back of your mind just don't picture you spending the rest of your life with her...your just with her because she's the best you think you can do.
That's not love brother... She on the other hand is legitimately in love with you....not for long though. Women have a sixth sense....and can pick up when a man is truly in love with them. And when that 6th sense kicks in and she catches on she will become angry and either dump your ass or cheat on you. She may even convince herself she's not attracted to you because she can't handle the fact that your rejecting her. Remember Not wanting to settle down and spend the rest of your life with her IS rejecting her in her mind.
My advice to those guys in serious relationships is to not worry about playing stupid games, don't worry about courting her or being alpha enough. If you truly love a woman being alpha will become automatic. IF you've been dating a chick 6 months or a year and she's trying to have a life with you, but you just wanna keep her around to bang her, sure go along with it....tell her what she wants to hear. Just know that your time is limited and there is NOTHING you can do about it, because you were never in love with her from the start. And once she realizes this your ****ed.
