Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are we only concerned with pick up?

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Hi, my fellow DJs I have come to realize a growing trend on here that I've tried to ignore for a while now. I see lots of mispellings of common words and bad grammatical errors. The shame is that a lot of us here are based in the U.S. where english is the first language. Are we only concerned about picking up chics? What about communicating clearly, effectively and intelligently. I have a nagging feeling that if people can't even type right who knows what's going on with their verbal communication with chics. Fellas please.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jafyk said:
Hi, my fellow DJs I have come to realize a growing trend on here that I've tried to ignore for a while now. I see lots of mispellings of common words and bad grammatical errors. The shame is that a lot of us here are based in the U.S. where english is the first language. Are we only concerned about picking up chics? What about communicating clearly, effectively and intelligently. I have a nagging feeling that if people can't even type right who knows what's going on with their verbal communication with chics. Fellas please.
If we are nitpicking here...

You spelled misspellings wrong! Also:

DJ's
a lot
chicks
effectively,
chicks
fellows

This isn't skool :rolleyes:
 

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Misspellings not "mispellings" since we're nitpicking.

edit: I see you caught that upside.
 

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Liek OMGZ stfu I liek here 2 fck chicks nt to go 2 skool dik hed!


But seriously, moot point. Written and verbal communication are completely different.
 

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Its the internet...relax.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Actually, he's right.
There is a definite correlation to clear, and well articulated communication and manifesting with much more clarity and ease in their lives. Essentially, think about HOW you express your personal boundaries, needs, and wants in your life?
This may open a few eyes here...

Communication is an often overlooked factor in many people's overall list of concerns and issues to address. It is true that we often dont give importance to something so incredibly undispensable and essential in our lives. Expressing ourselves totally, genuinely and clearly is a SKILL. A skill that men shouldnt deem as trivial or unneccesary.


Excellent communication skills are truly one of life's 'channels' into expressing, and receiving what you want clearly, and expediently.


I do believe that men here should be concerned with other aspects of their lives other than PU skills.

There are numerous other things that adult, mature males do seek to be fulfilled in and experience in their lives.
Success in life is different for many of us, but there are common threads that we as men, should pay attention to.

A happy home life, successful career, abundance in our health, wealth, and well being, a strong social network, fun, enjoyable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships, fulfilling enjoyable hobbies, follwing our passions without blocks and obstacles, and simply living a compelling life.
An empowered life.
 

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jafyk said:
Hi, my fellow DJs I have come to realize a growing trend on here that I've tried to ignore for a while now. I see lots of mispellings of common words and bad grammatical errors. The shame is that a lot of us here are based in the U.S. where english is the first language. Are we only concerned about picking up chics? What about communicating clearly, effectively and intelligently. I have a nagging feeling that if people can't even type right who knows what's going on with their verbal communication with chics. Fellas please.
Edited for corrections.

jafyk said:
Hi, my fellow DJ's. I have come to realize a growing trend on here that I've tried to ignore for a while now. I see lots of misspellings of common words and grammatical errors. The shame is that a lot of us here are based in the U.S. where English is the primary language. Are we only concerned about picking up chicks? What about communicating clearly, effectively and intelligently? I have a nagging feeling that if people can't even type correctly, who knows what's going on with their verbal communication with chicks? Fellas please.
Edited for corrections ;)

BTW I love how you misspelled misspellings.
 

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Maxtro said:
Edited for corrections.


Edited for corrections ;)

BTW I love how you misspelled misspellings.
Lol, I was just trying to kill two birds with a stone MiSpelling, lol.
 

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Interceptor I agree but I find it somewhat hard to believe that the way we type on a forum has a significant impact on our lives. Of course we need something other than pickup but I don't see the connection to grammar.

Although it would be nice if everyone used proper English and grammar on here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree with Interceptor, he proved his point doubly right there.

He explained in clear words exactly what he wanted to say, and in so doing, proves his very point again because it's much easier to understand than some obfuscating slang abbreviations.
 

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SinJester said:
Interceptor I agree but I find it somewhat hard to believe that the way we type on a forum has a significant impact on our lives. Of course we need something other than pickup but I don't see the connection to grammar.
It certainly does. How you present your ideas and thoughts says a lot about yourself. Compare the posts of the DJs you admire here and those of the struggling newbies.
 

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I'm very concerned with my grammar and spelling skills. I try my hardest to keep everything right, but it's almost impossible for me. The spellchecks don't even recognise my words.

I have very bad dyslexia and ADD. I only found this place because I was looking for a forum to improve my English skills.
 

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SinJester said:
Interceptor I agree but I find it somewhat hard to believe that the way we type on a forum has a significant impact on our lives. Of course we need something other than pickup but I don't see the connection to grammar.

Although it would be nice if everyone used proper English and grammar on here.
Ok, maybe I'm just being difficult but I'm tired of reading posts where somebody repeats the same error twice on two totally unrelated words, example; there's a thread I came across where this guy was talking about how he's slept with close to a 100 women. Anyway, he says "the girl I "meant" last night" instead of "the girl I met last night" Please tell me do these 2 words sound anything alike? I thought it was a one time mistake but he made the same mistake in another response. I'm not really talking about using capitals for things like "i's" or spelling slang words properly because most of the times we can still read those things and we still get it. Whether I spell "Chick" as Chic or Chyk most people still get that.
 

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wolf116 said:
I'm very concerned with my grammar and spelling skills. I try my hardest to keep everything right, but it's almost impossible for me. The spellchecks don't even recognise my words.

I have very bad dyslexia and ADD. I only found this place because I was looking for a forum to improve my English skills.
Good luck, lol. You better go find yourself an English instructor/ dictionary/thesaurus.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jafyk said:
Good luck, lol. You better go find yourself an English instructor/ dictionary/thesaurus.
I had an English tutor for two years, paid for her myself through high school.
Waste of money, I've learnt more just by posting on the net.
 

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Well, in that case my friend be careful what you read. You just might be reading the wrong thing.
 
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