"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are we headed for another SEXUAL REVOLUTION?

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d9930380 said:
I hate to say it but with the greater promisciousness of women it's made me very reluctant to even think about marriage because the girls seems less special than I would have hoped for and therefore not worth marrying and giving up my independance and abiliy to **** younger girls as I get older. All wome seem more like FBs now rather than something deeper. Maybe it's just me though.
It's not you at all, it's a FACT. I see it every day of the week.

I'm not all that cracked up about the whole marriage thing myself, even if sexual attitudes were different. It certainly makes you question the viability of the institution when you see all of these dudes girlfriends and wives slobbering on some other dude, but even in more conservative, fear filled times I just never saw that much of a benefit to signing a piece of paper that pretty much fukks you in the event that you are one of the 50% of people who end up in divorce court. And what really kills me is the other % of people who remain in relationships because of kids or insecurity or whatever. What could that number be? Another 10%? 20%, MORE????? Wouldn't doubt it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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STR8UP said:
Holy SH!T!

Went to a lady friends house last night for a dinner party, and the after dinner convo inevitably led to SEX.

It was me and another guy with three chicks. We must have talked about sex for three hours, including (but not limited to) anal sex, threesomes, pubic hair grooming preferences, fetishes, you name it. It was surreal. The host of the party even broke out one of the sex toys she bought the week before for all of us to see. And this chick is the conservative one!

If there was any doubt in my mind about the fact that times are a changin', there certainly isn't now!

I'm telling you, sexual attitudes are shifting, Use it to your advantage if you so desire. Just remember, in ten years when you start reading articles about the latest sexual revolution...I CALLED IT!
I sure hope so because we're well into the 21st century and there are STILL a lot of hang-ups and insecurities about our sexuality. Its about time we become less ashamed about being sexual creatures. Once glance at a nakid adult female (or male for that matter) and its obvious what should be one of our primary focuses. The whole damn thing is a sex machine optimized for it!
 

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The sexual revolution was all hype. Pure hollywood.

How many of those guys from the so-called golden era of the 70's got taken to the cleaners in divorce court? If women and men were truly equal, then folks would divorce, go their own seperate ways and not have women get all vindictive and shyt wanting to get child support and alimony.

Hell, men who find out that their wives cheated on them and got knocked up by some other dude are forced to take care of that little bastard from their wife's booty call.

Sexual revolution..About as real as the easter bunny..
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I know plenty of girls and my world is NOTHING like that. Maybe it is Canada? Because most of you guys are from USA. Are they injecting you guys with sex hormones or something? It sounds like society is more sex crazed where you guys are.
That's my experience where l live too. The sexually liberated girl in LR, AR is definitely the exception to the rule here. I know a few, but the lions share of the ones i hang out with are sexually conservative/monogamous minded.
 

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azanon said:
That's my experience where l live too. The sexually liberated girl in LR, AR is definitely the exception to the rule here. I know a few, but the lions share of the ones i hang out with are sexually conservative/monogamous minded.
I'm sure it's WAAAAY different in a small town.

I was born in a town of about 800 people. Haven't been back there in awhile but I can't imagine the scene being the same there.

But the thing is, I have lived in a decent size urban area for the past 20 years, and I have watched the transformation firsthand.

It never EVER used to be like it is now. I have never seen chicks so open about their sexual desires and adventures. Never heard them openly talking about their sex toys, let alone bringing them out to show everyone before dinner. Never had so many women boldly hitting on me. Never seen so many people looking to hook up with others while they are involved in a committed relationship.

I'm sure conservative attitudes in small towns serve to supress 0utward displays of sexual behavior, but I would bet that people in more rural areas are less innocent than they would like people to believe.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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