Are we headed for another SEXUAL REVOLUTION?

[STR8UP]

Maybe it's just me or maybe it's just my current situation, or maybe it's TRUE, but I can almost see another sexual revolution coming into fruition.

People who are a little older always talk about how easy it was to get laid in the 70's, before AIDS and crap. Could it be that with many of these fears subsiding that the pendulum might be swinging the other way?

I don't fukk a lot of women, but if I had more time, energy, and inclination it would be like shooting fish in a barrel.

My situation might be skewing my perspective.....anyone else see what I'm seeing?

Maybe I'm just hitting a "sweet spot" in life, I dunno. But it DEFINITELY seems like the prevailing attitude towards casual sex and sex in general is much different than it was ten years ago.

There have been a lot of threads lately about women cheating. Coincidence, or not? It would stand to reason that if society's attitude toward sex is becoming more liberal, that people might be more likely to cheat.

Is it just me?!?!?

 

[KarmaSutra]

I think the internet has allowed people to remove many of the constraints and games we play in order to fvck each other. Now it's as easy as typing a couple of keys and throwing some game you can get ass on a plate.

 

[squirrels]

The sex has always been there for those who would take it instead of waiting for it to be offered to them.

People have more balls over the Internet.

 

[STR8UP]

You really think it's all because of the internet?

I'm sure it has something to do with it, but it doesn't account for the whole pie.

I don't remember women ever being so open about sex. Nowadays my female friends talk about their new sex toys over dinner like they would talk about their last vacation.

I see SOOOOO many people just chomping at the bit to get a piece of ass (both male and female).

I was out with a group of friends a few weeks ago. One of the chicks in the group meets some dude, they cut out and hit a hotel a few blocks away. Another one meets a different dude and leaves with him. I leave to meet another group of friends and I have some dudes girlfriend hanging all over me.

We all know that society goes through cycles of being more and then less tolerant of certain behaviors. Look at tattoos. Ten years ago they were edgy. Today they are commonplace.

I could be wrong but I think we are coming into a new era here in the US where people are more open and tolerant. More "European". I like it.

 

[englishman]

I wonder if its because AIDS didnt infect everybody like doctors said it would? I think everybody **** themselves in the late 80s but it just didnt materialize?

 

[KarmaSutra]

I didn't say the internet was the only reason. However, it would be ignorant to not admit that it has changed how relationships and hookups are manifested, there's absolutely no doubt about that. I also think it's a global acceptance of sexuality. The puritanistic views of the boomers is quickly going away. But the main reason is the widespread and point and click access to information which supercedes any other reason for the changing of our views sexually, physically and philosophically.

 

[jonwon]

Maybe it's just me or maybe it's just my current situation, or maybe it's TRUE, but I can almost see another sexual revolution coming into fruition.

People who are a little older always talk about how easy it was to get laid in the 70's, before AIDS and crap. Could it be that with many of these fears subsiding that the pendulum might be swinging the other way?

I don't fukk a lot of women, but if I had more time, energy, and inclination it would be like shooting fish in a barrel.

My situation might be skewing my perspective.....anyone else see what I'm seeing?

Maybe I'm just hitting a "sweet spot" in life, I dunno. But it DEFINITELY seems like the prevailing attitude towards casual sex and sex in general is much different than it was ten years ago.

There have been a lot of threads lately about women cheating. Coincidence, or not? It would stand to reason that if society's attitude toward sex is becoming more liberal, that people might be more likely to cheat.

Is it just me?!?!?

If there was no such thing as STD's i really think people would be fuc*ing in the street, ofc that is against the law, but if there where no STD'S at all sociaty would be ALOT different then now.

Mass orgies, orgie parlours, you name it, it would be here.

Now the other thing is reproduction, well now that as been almost sorted, with the pill e.t.c well......

Just look up rome along time ago and other ancient cultures, they used to have mass orgies and shi*.

Yes its out sociaty, yes its STD's yes it puts people off, but what is constructed and what is natural.

To me marriage was constructed since i dont believe in the GOD and i can link in cra* loads of proof the bible story was a myth so marriage vows are BS to me anway. So the man made construct was that and not orgies, celebrating sex is only bad, since it:
A: can get you killed or can give you a very bad disease, i would almost half suspect governments would not be that ars*d with controlling STD's since it would not server there purpose, if you really think about it.
B: Can produce children.

Sexual revolution, if they cured every sexual disease tomorrow poeple would celebrate by fuc*ing in the street i guarantee it 1oo%.#

Oh i would not be suprised if AIDS was made in a lab some-place anyway.
The sexual revelution in the 60's had a massive impact on the econamy and the governments at the time, it HAD to be stopped some how.

Makes one think, exactly who is shafting you up the back crack.
And AIDS may sound terrible but what a great invention to control population over-load especcially in poor countries where all they do is fuc* since they have NOTHING else to do.

 

[joekerr31]

sexual revolution? in some ways i suppose. women are more sexual today than ever before.

sex is no longer that great mystery that it use to be.

with the internet access to porn is through the roof. and dont kid yourself, women are checking it out also - if only to see what it is that men are looking at.

the world today is a 'me' world - everyone is focused on themselves as opposed to organizations or belief systems.

if i think back to when i was 20 id say that 60% of girls were looking for a relationship before you could get in their pants. today id say that maybe 20% are. most are more than prepared to test drive the sex before even bothering to think about a relationship.

also, the perception that woman is a 'slut' if she sleeps with 10+ guys in her lifetime is pretty much no longer out there. women have successfully transformed men into walking dildos / boy toys and shows like sex in the city hammer in the message that its fine to pick up a guy and screw him for your own satisfaction.

the unfortunate reality behind all this however is that many people have sacrificed evolving as people. instead of growing in to mature adults they kind of remain in the "im 16 and going to cancun for spring break' mentality.

but all that said, there are still lots of folks (including myself) who are careful about who they stick their d*ck in.

sure, aids isn't what it use to be, and maybe its not the death sentence it use to be - but i still dont want it! nor do i want an std.

personally i think a lot of women are lower quality than in years past. and its not to do with them sleeping around more directly - but the 'i can get laid whenever i want' attitude they have just adds tot heir already childlike immature behavior.

anyway, this topic primarily relate to low quality women. high quality women have been the same throughout the ages and typically don't bang every tom **** and harry that comes along.

 

[Vulpine]

I was hoping this thread was going to be about how men were going to turn the tables and rise up with the sexual power. Men are in a position now, with all the sex-crazed slvts running around, to pull a complete 180.

If men were so inclined, we could cop the same attitudes: "I don't do that on a first date." "You have to wine me and dine me before we hop in the sack." "OMG, why are you talking to me?!?!!? GROSS!" "You didn't get the door for me!"

I've been toying with the notion, and fiddling with sex control, and I have to say that it's crazy how I get showered with dinners, gifts, and get driven around everywhere. Women are turning into AFC's and I'm climbing up on a pedestal.

I giggle at the idea of taking the cards that media and society are dealing and STILL playing the game better than women.

Boy toy, eh? Call it what you want, but a vibrator needs batteries: "Where's my batteries, beeyatch!?"

MUAUAUAHAAHhAhahahaaHAHAHHAAAAAA!

 

[STR8UP]

I didn't say the internet was the only reason. However, it would be ignorant to not admit that it has changed how relationships and hookups are manifested, there's absolutely no doubt about that. I also think it's a global acceptance of sexuality. The puritanistic views of the boomers is quickly going away. But the main reason is the widespread and point and click access to information which supercedes any other reason for the changing of our views sexually, physically and philosophically.

No doubt the internet has changed things. Hell, the whole communication age has changed things.

How much easier is it to cheat or hook up nowadays? It wasn't long ago that people had a home phone and a work phone and thats about it for everyday communication.

Today we have cell phones, texting (which seems to be popular with people who cheat!) email, IM, voicemail you can check from anywhere, you name it.

I haven't done it in awhile, but back in the day I would meet chicks online for hooking up. If I remember correctly one of them was married and drove about 1000 miles and bought a hotel room for a few nights just to fukk me. Another one I talked to for about 10 minutes out of a chat room before she was asking to meet up for some action. Ended up getting a BJ in the park a couple of hours later, could have fukked her but I didn't want to bring her back to the crib.

 

[STR8UP]

sexual revolution? in some ways i suppose. women are more sexual today than ever before.

sex is no longer that great mystery that it use to be.

with the internet access to porn is through the roof. and dont kid yourself, women are checking it out also - if only to see what it is that men are looking at.

I don't hear a lot about women hitting up the internet porn (doesn't mean it doesn't happen) but like I said pretty much every chick I know is all into the toy stores.

I actually got invited to a dinner party with some ladies a couple of weeks ago. I didn't end up going, but it turns out the plan was for them (or us, I guess) to hit the toy store afterwards. Next time I saw them each chick took turns unabashedly telling me what they bought, one of them bought some kind of thingy that hooks into her Ipod and I guess vibrates to the beat of the music. What will they think of next?

I also got invited by a buddy's girlfriend to one of those sex toy parties recently. I was one of a small handfull of guys there, and the women weren't too shy about what they were buying in front of several strange men.

personally i think a lot of women are lower quality than in years past. and its not to do with them sleeping around more directly - but the 'i can get laid whenever i want' attitude they have just adds tot heir already childlike immature behavior.

I know what you are saying. I take a little more optimistic view than you do, but I know a few women who fit that bill to a "t" and although I consider them friends the vibe they give off is a HUUUUUGE turnoff.

One chick I know I met several years ago. I met her through an older friend and the night we met we made plans to meet up downtown later. She flaked that night, and I only ran into her from time to time the next couple of years after that. Recently got reconnected with her and she just wreaks of that Sex in the City vibe that some women give off. She's a 26 year old hottie, but I would NEVER have a relationship with her just based upon the feeling I get from her

 

[Last Man Standing]

It has nothing to do with the internet -- this "sex gone mad" is part of the Homo/Hor agenda to make everything sexual and corruption acceptable - this is part of The Matrix!! I've been watching it for 30 years - only a war would change this deviancy and hors will suddenly become women again in a few generations!!

Your friends are not women - they are hors!!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

You guys think STDs has slowed people down?! Are you kidding?

 

[STR8UP]

You guys think STDs has slowed people down?! Are you kidding?

You probably aren't old enough to remember the big AIDS scare in the 80's and early 90's. What a bunch of BS.

I was a bartender during the early 90's and I've met a lot of people but never knew anyone who contracted AIDS. They blew that whole thing up and shoved it in our faces until people were more cautious about who they had sex with (like you could really tell who had a disease and who didn't).

It was a load of crap but lots of people bought into it hook, line, and sinker.

 

[d9930380]

STDs certainly made me VERY apprecensive - still do, they haven't went away. But this generation didn't grow up with the Aids scare that was greatly blown out of proportion in the 90s (for heteriosexuals) with all the scare ads ect - therefore with that and media sex has become very common. It's the reason why people aren't getting married now.

All in all I'm not sure if it's a good thing because I think a healthy society is based on a strong family unit - with unmarried parents and divorce, kids are feeling abandened and are displaying that with a **** you attitude to everyone else. This is a timebomb waiting to go off - if it hasn't already.

I hate to say it but with the greater promisciousness of women it's made me very reluctant to even think about marriage because the girls seems less special than I would have hoped for and therefore not worth marrying and giving up my independance and abiliy to **** younger girls as I get older. All wome seem more like FBs now rather than something deeper. Maybe it's just me though.

 

[jonwon]

STDs certainly made me VERY apprecensive - still do, they haven't went away. But this generation didn't grow up with the Aids scare that was greatly blown out of proportion in the 90s (for heteriosexuals) with all the scare ads ect - therefore with that and media sex has become very common. It's the reason why people aren't getting married now.

All in all I'm not sure if it's a good thing because I think a healthy society is based on a strong family unit - with unmarried parents and divorce, kids are feeling abandened and are displaying that with a **** you attitude to everyone else. This is a timebomb waiting to go off - if it hasn't already.

I hate to say it but with the greater promisciousness of women it's made me very reluctant to even think about marriage because the girls seems less special than I would have hoped for and therefore not worth marrying and giving up my independance and abiliy to **** younger girls as I get older. All wome seem more like FBs now rather than something deeper. Maybe it's just me though.

A healthy society is based on a strong family unit, a society, but this same society is also shafting the family unit, it is not aids of std's or sex that as crippled the family unit, it is the law and the power that as been given to the emotional creature called WOMEN.

WOMEN initiate 90% of all divorces and alot later regret choice, i am starting to wonder if women base there ideals on divorce around what they falt at that given month, without thinking logically about the impact of it.

Women not men inititate 90% of all divorces or you better believe its over 50% anyway.

Now sexual liberation as been something that as been more then expressed in many ages and cultures some of the BEST marriages and relationships are actually proven to come from places where they dont have sexual hangups and inhibitions! Sex is not the cause of marriage problems and the family unit is a factor for a certain social order, but it is this society that as messed up the family unit.

here is why:
This society is founded on matirialist values, it is a built on i must 'buy', every time we step in the street, we turn on the tv we are bombarded with media and advertising to buy to consume and sadly the way i see things the average women is a consumer's dream come true.

the average women loves the consumer life-style and buys into it hook line and stinker, wanting to keep up with the celebritires wanting the fine trapping of what THIS society can offer and they expect a man to slot into that mould of consume life style. Not all but most do.

Now the problem is women have been given alot of power and earn the same as men these days, even though the feminsts will make you think they are still the victims, anyway tradition values e.t.c still expect them women to marry or shack up with a guy that can support them, but the clincher is the more a women earns the more her value of support is, or the price of suport for her, this is the average consumer ideal coming out.

So society plays a pivotal role in the over all break down of marriage as more and more people jack into consumer land and the women expect after they are living the ameriance/western dream of buy buy buy they want a man that can support there ideals of what is right based on what the coke advert is telling them.

Sex as nothing to do with it, in truth and sex as been repressed by this society only glamorizes it and by making something that is natural taboo, makes the act something dangerouse exciting and glorifies it rather then treating as just simply sex.

More and more people including women are opening there eyes and seeing the buy buy now ideal is an empty dream and though some are happy, the 9 to 5 grind to keep up with the jonses is not what it was spun to be and can actually leed to a very boring shi* consumer life-style!

Sex is not the problem it is the values that have been spun that is the issue.
This normally is in the form of girl power, women liberation and power for women! Power from what exactly should be the reply, since they still want the consumer life-style but they also want to be looked after also.

And as long as Brittney e.t.c and other celebrities illustrate it is ok to set bad examples to women then the flock will simply follow.

marriage is not long what it was it is simply another means in the courtship faze for alot of women and now benig divorced as actually become fashionable.

 

[Vulpine]

And as long as Brittney e.t.c and other celebrities illustrate it is ok to set bad examples to women then the flock will simply follow.

Good point. And, as the case with Anna Nicole, when the "out-of-control" lifestyle catches up, society goes:

" What a TRADGEDY!"

instead of

" Duh. What did you think was going to happen? A Disney happy ending?"

Women love the consumer fantasy: It's a 'Cinderella' complex. "I just know one day my Prince Charming will come along and turn my pumpkin into a stagecoach!"

 

[Faca]

Man, age doesn't matter!.. okey if you can't walk and talk.. then it does..

BUT most importantly is.. that you walk that talk!

- faca

 

[hithard]

There is a big shift in attitude regarding sex and women in australia.They cant seem to drop the g-bangers fast enough down here.I think the media as a whole has a lot to do with it from the net to music.

 

[STR8UP]

Holy SH!T!

Went to a lady friends house last night for a dinner party, and the after dinner convo inevitably led to SEX.

It was me and another guy with three chicks. We must have talked about sex for three hours, including (but not limited to) anal sex, threesomes, pubic hair grooming preferences, fetishes, you name it. It was surreal. The host of the party even broke out one of the sex toys she bought the week before for all of us to see. And this chick is the conservative one!

If there was any doubt in my mind about the fact that times are a changin', there certainly isn't now!

I'm telling you, sexual attitudes are shifting, Use it to your advantage if you so desire. Just remember, in ten years when you start reading articles about the latest sexual revolution...I CALLED IT!