“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are we born Introvert or Stuck Up?

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No one is born stuck up. People are stuck up due to socialization. Some people may be born with a more introverted temperment, but like i said before, socialization plays the key role.
 

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Yeah I think intorversion, and extraversion for that matter, and stuck upness (narcissism?) are two distinct and separate things. I do think you can be born with the genetics that will favor for introversion and/or being stuck up though.
 

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A person can be born with Avoidant Personality Disorder and can thus be born to become introverted and likewise another person can be born with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and thus be stuck up.

So yeah people can be born to be either one of those.

Normal people who do not carry the bad genetics that create those disorders are born neutral but through socialization, learning and their own genetic makeup they go on to become various types of different personality's.
 

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KontrollerX said:
A person can be born with Avoidant Personality Disorder and can thus be born to become introverted and likewise another person can be born with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and thus be stuck up.

So yeah people can be born to be either one of those.

Normal people who do not carry the bad genetics that create those disorders are born neutral but through socialization, learning and their own genetic makeup they go on to become various types of different personality's.

This is one of best explaination I've seen and I totally agree. A person with genetics to become xyz will become that almost regardless of enviroment. And a genetically neutral person could go either way depending on enviroment. And a person who is strongly genetically positive to not become xzyz never will regardless of enviroment. And another thing is a person's genetics influence how their enviroment react to them. In other words a "negative" genetic quality draws in a reinforces negative from their enviroment.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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peoples personalities are influenced by: environment and biology (hereditary factors)

There are different schools of thought on it but the majority of scientists believe that biology does play a big role in our "default" personality but that it can be altered by environment.
 
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