"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are we born Introvert or Stuck Up?
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So yeah people can be born to be either one of those.
Normal people who do not carry the bad genetics that create those disorders are born neutral but through socialization, learning and their own genetic makeup they go on to become various types of different personality's.
KontrollerX said:A person can be born with Avoidant Personality Disorder and can thus be born to become introverted and likewise another person can be born with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and thus be stuck up.
So yeah people can be born to be either one of those.
Normal people who do not carry the bad genetics that create those disorders are born neutral but through socialization, learning and their own genetic makeup they go on to become various types of different personality's.
This is one of best explaination I've seen and I totally agree. A person with genetics to become xyz will become that almost regardless of enviroment. And a genetically neutral person could go either way depending on enviroment. And a person who is strongly genetically positive to not become xzyz never will regardless of enviroment. And another thing is a person's genetics influence how their enviroment react to them. In other words a "negative" genetic quality draws in a reinforces negative from their enviroment.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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There are different schools of thought on it but the majority of scientists believe that biology does play a big role in our "default" personality but that it can be altered by environment.