"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are We All Here At SoSuave, Some Sociopaths?

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Fruitbat said:
Elliot r and others are IMO a result of the pill and feminism.

The old world regulated human breeding choices on natural lines - reality. If you wanted sex as a woman, you could quite easily end up pregnant. You therefore chose qualities other than six packs, aggressive ******* behaviour and tattoos. A woman had to really think about who she gave her vagina to, and chose not soley based on sexual stimulation. Men as well would select pArtners based on ability to raise children.

Modern society has reduced mating and courtship to mere animal lusts. The dumbest have the most children. The john galts, the men who make the world tick, end up alone as their money is extorted from them via taxation.

Elliot r is a symptom of this. This is blue red pill all over. We still hang on the the idea that if we do x y z we get a b c. Not so, men have been reduced to the level of femLe bimbos where those so lacking in any mental capicity other than pounding weights, doodling on themselves etc Are the new guardians and sperm donors of the next generation.

Expect more angry shootings. Where the balance of nature has been so disrupted by removing breeding responsibility from one sex, the disenfranchised males of the other with nothing left to live for can and will end up angry and desparate.
Just about the first post I've agreed with from Fruibat. You speak the truth here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fruitbat said:
The old world regulated human breeding choices on natural lines - reality. If you wanted sex as a woman, you could quite easily end up pregnant. You therefore chose qualities other than six packs, aggressive ******* behaviour and tattoos. A woman had to really think about who she gave her vagina to, and chose not soley based on sexual stimulation.
I know that no one here needs examples of this to believe it, but it reminds me of a girl I know. Just this year so far, I know she's had five male sex partners and three female partners. And those are just the ones that I'm aware of. The pill let the genie out of the bottle, and made the expansion of feminism possible.
 

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To answer your first question, no. Not even close.

Tenacity said:
But I'm just saying....are any of you guys in this same situation? Where if you actually looked at your life, you could be labeled a Sociopath?
On the one hand, part of me wants to say, "Oh, man. Things would be SO much easier if I were."

I deeply understand sociopathy. There are a couple of close relatives and close friends I've known in my life who are classic sociopaths, psychopaths, pathological liars, bipolar or borderline personality disorder, addicts; you name it, I've dealt with it.

I recognize that a sociopath has a natural ability to "turn on the charm" and "fake it" without ever feeling consequences for their actions, and a pathological liar is able to weave complex and truly mesmerizing tales that enable them to easily perform DHVs and create scenarios and emotions that feel very real for their partner, quickly ensnaring their whole wills and lives into their net, until they have a ready and willing army of puppets in their lives.

However, after experiencing this repeatedly and intimately, I can honestly say that despite these "advantages", I wouldn't wish any of the aforementioned disorders on anyone. The people I've known with these kinds of mental maladies lead some of the loneliest and most woefully pitiful, empty lives you could possibly imagine... and nobody can ever cure them, because they are so tragically adept at using mental judo and total emotional isolation or possibly even obliteration that they are unreachable by any means.

I don't lament my ability to be deeply hurt by experiencing what I've felt was love before, nor do I regret having been wounded, and learning from those experiences, and recovering, and becoming a more whole person as a result. I'm better learning what qualifies as a meaningful relationship in my life, and I've evolved a better understanding of what my needs and expectations are.

... also, the number of movies I've cried during is probably the most embarrassing fact in the universe about me, and much of my life is a struggle between my logical and emotional selves. I'm pretty sure I'm not a sociopath. :)
 
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