Have you ever noticed that there's something strange about a lot of sargers?
style ones said this.....
It's as if you look at a guy, and you can just TELL that something is missing.
Some guys that i know are so amazing how they pick-up girls...U see them get the number...get that their having a great time with the girl...and its true They get great reactions most of the time. But, at the same time, they NEVER seem to have a girlfriend. the best way to be a sarger is to live ur live and take out the need to sarge...
A problem I've noticed amongst some of the most dedicated posters here, especially those who got into sosuave in their teens , is that they are, to some degree, SOCIAL ROBOTS. And, after sometime, it begins to show through to an HB that you are just a dull boring guy that don't have anything MORE going for himself. The other problem with being a social robot is that you start to think that everyone else around you is one too,
quote:"We first make our habits,and then our habits make us"-john dryden
Here's another thing Social Robots do: They use their friends to give them their repertoire of strategies... If they are around women, even at a lunch at work, they feel a stange and its like they get kind of pumped upso much, and feel as if they have to sarge. Interactions with women are no longer normal; they become like an event to feel a sense of self-worth. most guys i know get an ego boost from aproaching....their in their to feel in the alpha status at the end of the night they ask themselves what went wrong..
when I now see the difference between the guys who are succesful and the guys who are not is..that guys who are getting the girls are the ones that are actually in their to make the girls feel good about themselves and by bringing them in to their own reality...
what ever we focus on becomes the idea of our own reality
Social robots also stop seeing value in things ithat are nit realated to learnig how to become better with women, such as books and movies and even friends that they can't learn about seduction from.
So, what I'm trying to say in short is that sosuave.com can give you SO much -- I know it's given me so much -- but it can take away a lot too.
SOLUTION
The solution is to put your life back into balance; spend the time you think u need to be in sosuave an; spend a dedicated amount of time just to sarging... thats true sosuave has some good advice... i know that the ultimate pain is that many of us have a created an identity that needs to totally be destroyed,exterminated,thrown out this world forever....
Cuz we want to move away from....
but the answer is not to exploit your learning..but to know the right time to use what youve learned in the right situations...
ASK YOUSRSELF: who are you,anyway?
But if you can make someone whos complete and has something better to do than be sitting in a computer halve of the day learning how to pick up women have u forgotten that some of the guys who get it ar not always in the forum...cuz they have better things to do
I once became this guy whenever he had a question...he would always run to the forum and ask....anyone for an answer....most of the people i used to get was people who were here most of the time
theres a boook i once read by antnony robbins the name is called awaken the giant within...this book is just awesome because he tells you...how to take immediate control of your mental,emotional and physical and financial destiny...the book is just so interesting that its sometimes hard to put it down..you could buy it cheap in amazon or a thrift store...the way he tells it...its just hard to buy another book without first finishing this one!
SOME OF THE things...he wrote in the book are
BE curious....
Be determined...it will dictate how you deal with upsets an challenges..
Be confident...your willing to experiment,to put yourself in the line."
Flexibility...its the ability to change your aproach in life
Alot my friends have asked me why the sudden change...they totally saw an AFC to what you might call the resemblence of an alpha male...I felt i was on top of my game...why? because the responses i was getting....were the ones that i would always dream about...
the thing is that a year in to turning my self around ...was kind of becoming..
reverse psychology ...everything i did just didn't feel like it was of any importance...all my pick-ups were forced..i had like a universal control for any kind of situation yet..it didnt even matter if i was having suces or not i wasn't really exited..something i had once replied to was coming back to bite me in the ass...
So this question is for the all the DJ'S out their in the forums or administrators or anyone who comes in to this furum...
thats true that some of this once posted by Style
but what can u say about this..http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=66486
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122539
HAS LEARNING HOW to seduce women helped you have a better life .....or has it given you like a ball and chain tied to your ankle...because the demand for learning all this techniques has taken over your life...
QUOTE:We are what we repeateadly do-Aristotle
style ones said this.....
It's as if you look at a guy, and you can just TELL that something is missing.
Some guys that i know are so amazing how they pick-up girls...U see them get the number...get that their having a great time with the girl...and its true They get great reactions most of the time. But, at the same time, they NEVER seem to have a girlfriend. the best way to be a sarger is to live ur live and take out the need to sarge...
A problem I've noticed amongst some of the most dedicated posters here, especially those who got into sosuave in their teens , is that they are, to some degree, SOCIAL ROBOTS. And, after sometime, it begins to show through to an HB that you are just a dull boring guy that don't have anything MORE going for himself. The other problem with being a social robot is that you start to think that everyone else around you is one too,
quote:"We first make our habits,and then our habits make us"-john dryden
Here's another thing Social Robots do: They use their friends to give them their repertoire of strategies... If they are around women, even at a lunch at work, they feel a stange and its like they get kind of pumped upso much, and feel as if they have to sarge. Interactions with women are no longer normal; they become like an event to feel a sense of self-worth. most guys i know get an ego boost from aproaching....their in their to feel in the alpha status at the end of the night they ask themselves what went wrong..
when I now see the difference between the guys who are succesful and the guys who are not is..that guys who are getting the girls are the ones that are actually in their to make the girls feel good about themselves and by bringing them in to their own reality...
what ever we focus on becomes the idea of our own reality
Social robots also stop seeing value in things ithat are nit realated to learnig how to become better with women, such as books and movies and even friends that they can't learn about seduction from.
So, what I'm trying to say in short is that sosuave.com can give you SO much -- I know it's given me so much -- but it can take away a lot too.
SOLUTION
The solution is to put your life back into balance; spend the time you think u need to be in sosuave an; spend a dedicated amount of time just to sarging... thats true sosuave has some good advice... i know that the ultimate pain is that many of us have a created an identity that needs to totally be destroyed,exterminated,thrown out this world forever....
Cuz we want to move away from....
"Rejection"
Anger
" Frustration"
"Loneliness"
"Deppresion"
"Failure"
" Humiliation"
Anger
" Frustration"
"Loneliness"
"Deppresion"
"Failure"
" Humiliation"
but the answer is not to exploit your learning..but to know the right time to use what youve learned in the right situations...
ASK YOUSRSELF: who are you,anyway?
But if you can make someone whos complete and has something better to do than be sitting in a computer halve of the day learning how to pick up women have u forgotten that some of the guys who get it ar not always in the forum...cuz they have better things to do
I once became this guy whenever he had a question...he would always run to the forum and ask....anyone for an answer....most of the people i used to get was people who were here most of the time
theres a boook i once read by antnony robbins the name is called awaken the giant within...this book is just awesome because he tells you...how to take immediate control of your mental,emotional and physical and financial destiny...the book is just so interesting that its sometimes hard to put it down..you could buy it cheap in amazon or a thrift store...the way he tells it...its just hard to buy another book without first finishing this one!
SOME OF THE things...he wrote in the book are
BE curious....
Be determined...it will dictate how you deal with upsets an challenges..
Be confident...your willing to experiment,to put yourself in the line."
Flexibility...its the ability to change your aproach in life
Alot my friends have asked me why the sudden change...they totally saw an AFC to what you might call the resemblence of an alpha male...I felt i was on top of my game...why? because the responses i was getting....were the ones that i would always dream about...
the thing is that a year in to turning my self around ...was kind of becoming..
reverse psychology ...everything i did just didn't feel like it was of any importance...all my pick-ups were forced..i had like a universal control for any kind of situation yet..it didnt even matter if i was having suces or not i wasn't really exited..something i had once replied to was coming back to bite me in the ass...
So this question is for the all the DJ'S out their in the forums or administrators or anyone who comes in to this furum...
thats true that some of this once posted by Style
but what can u say about this..http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=66486
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122539
HAS LEARNING HOW to seduce women helped you have a better life .....or has it given you like a ball and chain tied to your ankle...because the demand for learning all this techniques has taken over your life...
QUOTE:We are what we repeateadly do-Aristotle
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