"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are tramp stamps trashy?

CostaDeSol

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I once dated a girl who had a tramp stamp. She came off as being very loyal and classy.

BUT she had a HUGE tattoo on her lower back. It always made me curious about what she was trying to communicate to guys with it.

she was a classy girl, but every time i saw her tramp stamp i began to think that maybe she had a past that i should definitely not ask about.

any thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LorenzoVonM

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CostaDeSol said:
I once dated a girl who had a tramp stamp. She came off as being very loyal and classy.

BUT she had a HUGE tramp stamp. It always made me curious about what she was trying to communicate to guys with it.

she was a classy girl, but every time i saw her tramp stamp i began to think that maybe she had a past that i should definitely not ask about.

any thoughts?

Was it a tattoo of a bullseye?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tdotseoul

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Yea they are trashy but when I'm ****ing a girl from behind and has it, its sexy as hell.
 

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CostaDeSol said:
I once dated a girl who had a tramp stamp. She came off as being very loyal and classy.

BUT she had a HUGE tattoo on her lower back. It always made me curious about what she was trying to communicate to guys with it.

she was a classy girl, but every time i saw her tramp stamp i began to think that maybe she had a past that i should definitely not ask about.

any thoughts?
I think 99% of woman in my past had tattoos, they pretend to be classy and wholesome...BS! Now the tramp stamp holy sh*t some of the things woman put there is ridiculous! YEAH just had a few flash backs....SMH

It's called TRAMP STAMP for that very reason, they haven't changed and never will!
 

CostaDeSol

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kind of mixed thoughts.

some say yes they are trashy...that they make you focus on their ass...and some say they like them.


i do think they are trashy because it comes off as an a$$ decoration. it would be the same if they got a tattoo above each nipple.
 
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