TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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Think the message is.... make yourself bigger, not your shirts smaller.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Are tight shirts gay?
- Thread starter ImprovingJuan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Everything looks good on you when your body is well built. Lift heavy, eat clean, maintain for at least a year (yes, nothing good comes quick) and wear the clothes you want with confidence.
PS: Any fat, skinny-fat, or out of shape hater may call you gay for looking fit...it's a defense mechanism, you'll learn to get immune to it.
PS: Any fat, skinny-fat, or out of shape hater may call you gay for looking fit...it's a defense mechanism, you'll learn to get immune to it.
MountainSlide
Master Don Juan
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I wear tight shirts. I've been asked if I'm gay. Gay guys are known for having good style. So I take it as a complement. Period.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
it's not gay.... ever.
it's just stupid and bad looking (most likely) if you're not muscular
it's just stupid and bad looking (most likely) if you're not muscular
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.