"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are These ****t Tests Or Female Manipulation?

soulforge

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Ok its been 3 weeks no contact, since ended a 4 month relationship..

Now that the fog is clearing somewhat, some of the things she said to me, are ringing alarm bells..

Are these shvt tests or manipulation?

Ok so we had this little argument and she stopped communicating with me.. I decided to apologise to her, even tho it was not all my fault.
I asked her to come over to mine for a drink..

Later that night, while i was fuking her from behind lol.. she said to me "You Need This puzzy don't you"

Did she say this because i apologised to her, and asked her to come over.. in her mind she has interpreted that, as me NEEDING her puzzy? Is this a control thing, power thing?


She also said to me on a few occasions, how lucky i am, that she gives me lots of blow jobs.. she said some woman dont do that.. is this her expecting me to be grateful to her? Treat her like a princess in exchange of blow jobs

why the fuk would you even say that in first place

Also she once said.. i,m gona have to give you less sex, don't want you getting too much of it whenever you want it.. then once or twice she tried to reject me sex

Using sex for a manipulation and control?


Also.. she pointed out that i am quite bossy and like to be in control... then she said, that will all change in the future?

I just said to her, you wish and laughed it off...


She also said.. the nicer i am to her.. the more naughtier the sex will be..


I get the feeling this girl wanted control and was quite the manipulater!!


Or is this typical female shvt test behaviour!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Next time she's got your c*ck in her mouth say "you need this meat stick, don't you?"
 

soulforge

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GS750 said:
Next time she's got your c*ck in her mouth say "you need this meat stick, don't you?"

Haha that aint gona happen, i dumped her...
 

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How would you describe this kind of behaviour?
 

soulforge

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My guess is, she was trying to control the frame.. put herself in a position of power.. that would explain, why she would refrain from texting me.. pulling away etc
 

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My guess is, she was trying to control the frame.. put herself in a position of power.. that would explain, why she would refrain from texting me.. pulling away etc
 

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wow that was a quick dump, guess its time to hit the club
 

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soulforge said:
Ok its been 3 weeks no contact, since ended a 4 month relationship..

Now that the fog is clearing somewhat, some of the things she said to me, are ringing alarm bells..

Are these shvt tests or manipulation?

Ok so we had this little argument and she stopped communicating with me.. I decided to apologise to her, even tho it was not all my fault.
I asked her to come over to mine for a drink..

Later that night, while i was fuking her from behind lol.. she said to me "You Need This puzzy don't you"

Did she say this because i apologised to her, and asked her to come over.. in her mind she has interpreted that, as me NEEDING her puzzy? Is this a control thing, power thing?


She also said to me on a few occasions, how lucky i am, that she gives me lots of blow jobs.. she said some woman dont do that.. is this her expecting me to be grateful to her? Treat her like a princess in exchange of blow jobs

why the fuk would you even say that in first place

Also she once said.. i,m gona have to give you less sex, don't want you getting too much of it whenever you want it.. then once or twice she tried to reject me sex

Using sex for a manipulation and control?


Also.. she pointed out that i am quite bossy and like to be in control... then she said, that will all change in the future?

I just said to her, you wish and laughed it off...


She also said.. the nicer i am to her.. the more naughtier the sex will be..


I get the feeling this girl wanted control and was quite the manipulater!!


Or is this typical female shvt test behaviour!
first mistake is apologizing when you didn't do anything wrong. Yes this is a **** test most women do and you failed. You tell her to behave herself in this situation.

As soon as you did that she lost respect and started to **** test you even more. When she says "you need this ***** don't you" that's when you pull out, get dressed and leave.

You weren't respecting yourself in these situations, that's the real reason she started ****ing you around. Women do these tests because they want to see if you are going to be a man. If you act like a ***** they get resentful.

But don't hate the player (women) understand the game and they'll purr like a kitten
 

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I dont take what any chick says during sex personally. its sex, whatever gets you off.
 
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