"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are these shirts gay?

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So we went from "does this dress make me look fat?" to "does this shirt make me look gay?" :D
 
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The second one is uneasy because it draws the eye to this weird region just below your neck. It's not a total design faux-pas but it's a very odd decision.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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all of them are gay. 2nd one gayest. 3rd one least gay.

side note: just come out of the closet already
 
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wow, the 2nd and 4th are entirely indicative of fruitcakes.
 
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To answer your question, yes.

Leave this kind of stuff to teenagers and hipsters.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes. Except maybe the first one. It really depends how gay you make the shirt look.
 
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gay or not its $25 for one shirt

LMFAO the 2nd one takes the idea of "peacocking" to a new extreme (and is gay)
1st one i think is pretty cool
3rd one is the one that looks "normal" in comparison
4th one is gay

I'm in high school and most people who wear clothing like this are the emo/scene hipsters, which I think are people trying way to hard to stand out of the crowd, but you could pull it off... just don't be like 25+ or something cause then it is weird
 
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They are pretty bad. Its not even the colors, but the designs.I'm sure you can find colorful shirts that don't scream "hey look at me i'm wearing colorful sh1t " so blatantly.

And it's $25 for a pink shirt with a picture of a peacock...:eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hmm thanks for the input, although I will say that site has some pretty sweet shirts.
 
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To the OP

First off - I applaud you for *wanting* to wear what YOU like - that takes balls.

Now to answer your question: 'Is this shirt gay?'

Trust me when I say this, you are asking the wrong question.

What you should be asking is: 'Can I pull this off?'

Let me share with you my personal experience. I just turned 27 and I dress girly by most guy's standards. I don't wear pink, but a lot of my clothes have a feminine feel to them. For example, one of my tops is a turtle neck that is pure black and white stripes. I have another top that is white with baby blue stripes. In the past I could not *pull it off* - now I can easily. I even tested how much craziness I could *pull off.* I wore a summer scarf to this mixed group outing and at first everyone was like: 'What the hell?' Especially the guys. They were all like: 'That is so gay!' But after the shock wore off, the girls loved it, and they all wanted to touch the scarf and they were kinoing me.

Also - are you a Gemini? Gemini guys are notorious for dressing up in a crazy way - I am a Gemini.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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