Are these IOI's?

[wunnaBsmooth]

Hey Guys,
A few scenerios that you guys can rip apart for me. I just want to know if I read the HB's cues correctly.

1. At dinner the other night, I couldn't help noticing that something that a HB8 in a 4 set was checking me out.
I was seated at the bar, HB8 was sitting in a booth across the room with 4 friends (3 of which were HB7 or better). Everytime I looked over there she was looking at me.
I thought I should go open her, but chickened out. (How much more AFCism can there be?)
I'm sure she was looking at me because she kept checking back frequently the whole time I was at the bar (1/2 hour ir 45 minutes). I casually looked around me to see if there was someone behind me or something....lol but it was just the wall.
I didn't open her because I wasn't 100% that she IOI'd me.. Man does that blow. I chickened out!

2. At a men's clothing store with my wing, I was looking to pickup some new (up to date) stuff. Stuff that doesn't say "old guy" to HB's.
So we end up near the counter where a redhead HB7.5 is working. She's chatting with some dude, I think he worked there too. As we browsed the shirts, HB begins to tell me that I should buy this or that because it's on sale and a good deal. So I fire back a line from "The Burbs" and say "Oh! Ricky Buttler says........" I didn't expect anything more to come out it.
HB says... "Hey! I know that from somewhere!" "What's that from?"
ME : "You're too young to know that line!" I continue checking out shirts. (Wing dissappears and so does the other dude)
HB says "NO! Really. I know that..... What movie is it from?"
Me: It's from the "Burbs." I turn around again.....
HB says (excitedly): "That's my favorite movie EVER!" then continues to blah blah....

After about 2 or 3 minutes of her yapping about something I can't recall, she begins to pull all of her long hair across one shoulder and begin to stroke her finger through it. Like combing it or something.
I don't remember what I said after that, because I kind of froze myself out when I recognized what I thought was IOI's.
Where they? Are these thing coincidences and I'm bulding them up in my head? This kind of stuff happens to me ALL THE TIME. So if they are IOI's, I'm going to start jumping on them. How much easier could it be?

I don't care if trolls make sh!t comments. I'm interested in the true DJ's opinions on this....

Thanks for your input.

Smooth..

 

[SweetTooth]

What i make of it...

Scenario 1:
Wanted to get to know you, felt physical attraction form the start, or found something about you eye-cathcing (maybe a shirt or something?)

Scenario 2:
Well there was one maybe? Or that could really just be her sorting her hair out... She either really DOES love the Burbs, or she wanted to make ocnversation and build rapport with you...


I'm only 16 lol and have only posted on the high school forum so far, but I just felt like replying to this...

 

[woods]

I find it hard to believe that the Burbs would be anyones favorite movie ever.
Just like the bible says; always assume they're interested.

You know where that chick works, and you already have a perfect date idea.
Invite her over to watch the Burbs. If she says no, throw something else out.

 

[realsmoothie]

Grumble grumble grumble...

...excuse my frustration... but these "ARE THEY IOI'S" threads drive me up the frickin' wall. Some guy comes on here, gives us a scenario or two where he just walks in the door of some place and some hottie throws everything but her p*ssy right at him and he does nothing, and his only question for us is "ARE THEY IOI'S"?

OK, bud, for you and every other lucky motherf*cker that gets IOI's from girls just for showing up... YES THEY ARE F*CKING IOI'S. DON'T BE SUCH A P*SSY AND GET THE HELL IN THERE. It doesn't matter anyhow, because you're supposed to "assume the sale" as a couple guys smarter than me on here would say.

I wouldn't be so frustrated with you if I didn't have to bust my ass to get with chicks that are even mediocre. I spent most of my life getting absolutely squat and only when I turned 30 did I finally get myself in gear, so when you lucky young bastards come along with the world at your feet I get a little peaky.

To quote "Girl Next Door" (a crappy film, though)... "F*CK HER FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!":woo:

 

[STR8UP]

OK, bud, for you and every other lucky motherf*cker that gets IOI's from girls just for showing up... YES THEY ARE F*CKING IOI'S. DON'T BE SUCH A P*SSY AND GET THE HELL IN THERE. It doesn't matter anyhow, because you're supposed to "assume the sale" as a couple guys smarter than me on here would say.

That's putting it bluntly!

If you think she's interested, chances are she is!

"Assuming the sale" gets results. When I am selling a product at my store sometimes when a customer is sitting on the fence about buying something, I will up and grab the item and take it to the register before they agree to buy it! I'm not telling them they HAVE to buy it, but lots of times people just need that little puff of wind to push them in the right direction. And it works!

 

[NorPacWolf]

Research IOI's to your heart's content (for thirteen dollars):

http://www.amazon.com/Mystery-Metho...8751641?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1174022083&sr=8-1

Here's a free quickie guide to "IOI's":

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39626&highlight=********+pook

Wolf

 

[wunnaBsmooth]

Grumble grumble grumble...

I wouldn't be so frustrated with you if I didn't have to bust my ass to get with chicks that are even mediocre. I spent most of my life getting absolutely squat and only when I turned 30 did I finally get myself in gear, so when you lucky young bastards come along with the world at your feet I get a little peaky.

To quote "Girl Next Door" (a crappy film, though)... "F*CK HER FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!":woo:

Now THAT was a passionate response! But. I'm not some young lucky bastard! I'm 39 divorced (for 11 years) with full custody of two children.
I'm not trying to be a pVssy about this stuff, but I've read everything I can get my hands on. I don't have any friends are willing to really wing. The one I refer to in the scenerio is the closest I have to wing, but he's practicly married.
I do get some pvssy. So I'm not what you might call desperate or anything.
I was just trying to reaffirm that I should have followed my intuition, because that kind of thing does happen to me with some regularity.

I appreciate all the replies in this thread. I should have just done what Pook said and assume that "It's on!"............:kick:

Thanks!

 

[wunnaBsmooth]

Here's a free quickie guide to "IOI's":

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39626&highlight=********+pook

Wolf

I Have been such a dumb a$$!!!!!!!! Thanks for the link NOrpac....
Of course Pook would have written up about it long before I came here!!!!


I really enjoy reading your Field reports! I especially like the small town sarging report! My town is so small that if you screw it up with one chic the whle town talks about it for a year! --------lol
You really grown some cajones since you started your DJ evolution! Congrats man!

 

[NorPacWolf]

Eleven years of marriage will surely lead to some ring rust, I'm sure. Anyway, I haven't been posting, but I'll probably post some sort of inner game update soon.

Wolf

 

[amoka]

What i make of it...

Scenario 1:
Wanted to get to know you, felt physical attraction form the start, or found something about you eye-cathcing (maybe a shirt or something?)

Scenario 2:
Well there was one maybe? Or that could really just be her sorting her hair out... She either really DOES love the Burbs, or she wanted to make ocnversation and build rapport with you...


I'm only 16 lol and have only posted on the high school forum so far, but I just felt like replying to this...

Age: 16

Posts: 16

Definately does not belong to the "Mature forum".

 

[NorPacWolf]

Hey Real,

There's two ways you can go. First, I remember AsianPlayboy saying how much harder he had to game when he first started out. I think he was competing with/trying to learn from, natural players. This competition against guys who were good looking forced him to develop better skills, skills which he has retained and improved upon to this day. So, you can actually use your own situation to your advantage.

Or, you can improve your looks. Invest in a nice shirt or two. Go to the gym. Improve your facial features in whatever way possible: wear sunscreen, get an eyebrow wax, or invest in a nicer smile; do what needs to be done. Eat right. These changes will generate attraction and make your life a little easier.

Or, you can continue to grumble. Which leads to stress and early death. Why waste your energy grumbling? Invest your energy in one or both of the first two options.


Wolfie

Grumble grumble grumble...

...excuse my frustration... but these "ARE THEY IOI'S" threads drive me up the frickin' wall. Some guy comes on here, gives us a scenario or two where he just walks in the door of some place and some hottie throws everything but her p*ssy right at him and he does nothing, and his only question for us is "ARE THEY IOI'S"?

OK, bud, for you and every other lucky motherf*cker that gets IOI's from girls just for showing up... YES THEY ARE F*CKING IOI'S. DON'T BE SUCH A P*SSY AND GET THE HELL IN THERE. It doesn't matter anyhow, because you're supposed to "assume the sale" as a couple guys smarter than me on here would say.

I wouldn't be so frustrated with you if I didn't have to bust my ass to get with chicks that are even mediocre. I spent most of my life getting absolutely squat and only when I turned 30 did I finally get myself in gear, so when you lucky young bastards come along with the world at your feet I get a little peaky.

To quote "Girl Next Door" (a crappy film, though)... "F*CK HER FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!":woo:

 

[wunnaBsmooth]

Thanks

Thanks to everyone who posted a reply!
Sarge on!!!!!!!