"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are these hints?

3243

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Ok I have been here for alot longer then my username says. I have read the bible etc. I think I may of being getting somewhere. But I am so confused if the things that have happened are true so I will ask here. I just have never had this stuff happen to me in my life! I lost weight and have it in my head that every woman wants me so I guess people can tell.

So I go to this store all the time near where I work and this HB8 who works there says to me "You look like you want some kids" I just laughed and left. Then I start thinking wow maybe she was giving me some kind of hint. "this woman has like 3 kids"

Next I see this HB9 who works where I do and I never spoke to her and she never spoke to me. So I am walking towards her and something gave me the feeling I was being watched and I looked up and there she is standing there smiling at me. I just smiled back and keep walking. So I go get a haircut and when I was done I had to pass her again and she yells over Hey you just got a haircut I said yep and she says it looks nice.

This other woman at work is the only one I actually speak to so I am making fun of her and she is punching me and everytime I walk by she just looks at me so the other day I am talking to her and I am drinking a bottle of water and she says "hey watch it you just spilled that all over me and got me all wet " she touched her crotch and was acting like she was brushing it off I looked down and there is no water on her pants.

Now if everyone of these things is some sort of sign then I am screwed because none of this hit me at the time and was not until later when I was thinking about it did I start to realize what happened.

Do these fall in to the most obvious come on that was missed?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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defiancy

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those might be be, but you need to appraoch and close with the number to actually find out
 

Wiesman44

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If i was interested in these girls, those would be go-ahead signs for me to approach and get #'s.

In terms of saying whether they definitely like u, your guess is as good as mine.

but i'd recommend u ask one out
 

Gravyboat

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Do these fall in to the most obvious come on that was missed?
Yes.

They want you BAD. Maybe a threesome could be in the works...mwahahahaha....
 

Thund3rstruck07

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I'd have to agree. Get the numbers and see where it leads. Have you ever heard of farce comedy? These things might all be huge coincidences. The water thing happens to me alot. The haircut thing is a normal occurence with women. This one girl told me I smelled nice, just out of the blue. It was just deodorant. The smiling thing...that might be something. Just get the numbers and check back with us. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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usdaprime

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Hehe you got her all wet. seems like hints to me. You did nothing about it?
 

MrCrankyPants

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So why do woman seem to make comments about just a haircut? This happenes to me as well. The woman never spoke to you until that day?
 

biker_gixxer

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Now if everyone of these things is some sort of sign then I am screwed

3243, Can I ask you a question? Do you mind if I come over there, pick up your keyboard and slap you sensless with it? I think if these women would of dropped their tops, you would still come on here and ask.. 'do you think they like me?'.

Oh..one more thing, I think you're very screwed, LOL.

Pay attention next time bro...
 
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