"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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are these girls gold diggers or stuck up

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me and my guy friends was talking to these chinese girls and 2 of them said this, like why would she date a guy with lower education(they have a 4 yr univ degree)-they were talking how they wanted to date a doctor, lawyer and be rich and how he can buy her this and that and take her travelling , doesn't own a car-she ain't busing-its like low class and eww yuck "(with the high class remark), a guy who makes less money , has to own his own place -proably a big house is what they want too .

tehy told me that ya why should they have to date or even marry a guy with the so called lower status or lower educated crteria. pretty much they want a doctor, driving a sl mercedes, owns a mansion, and spoils her with whatever she wants. they also had and made a big remark on education and what univ and studying what major...etc

she also told me how one of her other friends lived with her ex bf, they broke up and now the apartment he used to ownis now hers, and another one said how her friend's bf is paying the mortgage on her house. do u actually believe this stuff. i doubt it unless the ex, and bf are total dumbos. we are also asian too. is this like a cultural kind of thing. status of how much you make, yur level of education(higher the better), lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joe45 said:
tehy told me that ya why should they have to date or even marry a guy with the so called lower status or lower educated crteria. pretty much they want a doctor, driving a sl mercedes, owns a mansion, and spoils her with whatever she wants. they also had and made a big remark on education and what univ and studying what major...etc
Keywords in bold.

Highly educated Asian girls are a little more status-oriented than your average girl, because of the cultural pressure from family & friends. They're still female and if they have a libido at all, they will want sex. The good thing is that you don't have to date or marry them to have sex with them. Pay no attention to their shallow talk, brother. :)
 

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They can put standarts to who they date, so can you. They want well educated and probably rich fiance. I want hot *ss, fit, beautiful and intelligent among other things. It goes both ways.

Sometimes you are out of your league. (If that's what you think). Most of the women you meet are out of your league too. Sounded weird, anyway, if you think you are not good enough, then you aren't. Most girls won't fill your criteria either. Like, how many of the gals you meet would you be actually willing to marry.
 

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they were telling me why they would even consider or why would they even date a guy with
-lower education-only 2 yr college, trades, ..etc(she wants univ degree, master and ultimatley the doctor)
-no car, the guy buses.-like its that big a deal of her busing on a date-bus are yuck
-has to come from a well off family-family has businesses, own their home
-guy has to have a high paying , high end , high status job-doctor, lawyer...etc

they said why they would even date any guy who doesn't even meet that standard or of a lower status and education- the guy has a 2 yr college or is a baker, welder...etc, guy who only drives a older mustang, civic, .

she said why should seh even date them , and why should she have to
 

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Tyron said:
They can put standarts to who they date, so can you. They want well educated and probably rich fiance. I want hot *ss, fit, beautiful and intelligent among other things. It goes both ways.

Sometimes you are out of your league. (If that's what you think). Most of the women you meet are out of your league too. Sounded weird, anyway, if you think you are not good enough, then you aren't. Most girls won't fill your criteria either. Like, how many of the gals you meet would you be actually willing to marry.
funny thing is these girls are very avg looking anways, nothing like those hot playboy girls, you see. one of them doesn;t even have Highschool, but wants like some doctor-rich guy, driving a SL, another one has a degree-but just a bachelor. seems weird they don;t have much education, they not rich at all, they take the bus and all, but when it comes to a guy they want they want a ruch guy with a SL, and very educatied, but they aren't themselves-double standard. hey
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just so suave

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Golddiggers, and stuck up...i doubt they even have a good sense of humour. They will probably end up marrying an AFC and he'll be smitten with her.
 
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