"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are these any good?

C

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I planned these openers out when im in a situation where i want to meet a girl in between classes while we are walking in the hall. Ofcoarse the halls are very busy at this time and everyone is worried about getting to their classes in a hurry so i tried to make something quick up. Im trying to show no interest and make it seem like im looking for a conversation. But most of the ideas i have don't do me any good, so tell me what you think about these. This is for when im 1st meeting a girl.

Opener 1
Hey thats a nice hoody(hat, jacket, etc)where did you get it from, or i can start off by saying, hey can I borrow that Hoody(hat, jacket, etc) for the day(jokingly).

Opener 2
Is that your natural hair color(But i don't know if that would come off as too rude). If she says no, I can joke around and say ive been wanting to dye my hair.

Opener 3-If she's wearing glasses
Hey can i borrow your glasses for today, i left mine at home and from here everyone looks like spongebob. Maybe a little cheesy, but i can find something else to say other than spongebob.

I've been reading the Dj bible so don't flame me if these aren't good. I just don't want to show too much interest right away but at the same time i don't want to say some bull**** line, and being in the hall trying to get to class theres only so much you can say in the 4 minute time period before the bell rings. Im really trying to step my game up so let me know what you guys think.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Hi, My name is ______. Pleased to meet you".

You are way over-analyzing the situation. So, the answer is, "No, none of those are any good".

Keep in mind that I'm telling you this because you are starting out. Keep it simple, man.
 
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The Bat said:
"Hi, My name is ______. Pleased to meet you".

You are way over-analyzing the situation. So, the answer is, "No, none of those are any good".

Keep in mind that I'm telling you this because you are starting out. Keep it simple, man.
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I don't know. Guys just don't randomly meet chicks at my school without a reason. I think that would come off as interested but i'll wait for more opinions. I don't feel there's anything wrong with keeping it simple, but im really trying to step up a little bit now.
 
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