"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are these any good?

Comeback kid

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I planned these openers out when im in a situation where i want to meet a girl in between classes while we are walking in the hall. Ofcoarse the halls are very busy at this time and everyone is worried about getting to their classes in a hurry so i tried to make something quick up. Im trying to show no interest and make it seem like im looking for a conversation. But most of the ideas i have don't do me any good, so tell me what you think about these. This is for when im 1st meeting a girl.

Opener 1
Hey thats a nice hoody(hat, jacket, etc)where did you get it from, or i can start off by saying, hey can I borrow that Hoody(hat, jacket, etc) for the day(jokingly).

Opener 2
Is that your natural hair color(But i don't know if that would come off as too rude). If she says no, I can joke around and say ive been wanting to dye my hair.

Opener 3-If she's wearing glasses
Hey can i borrow your glasses for today, i left mine at home and from here everyone looks like spongebob. Maybe a little cheesy, but i can find something else to say other than spongebob.

I've been reading the Dj bible so don't flame me if these aren't good. I just don't want to show too much interest right away but at the same time i don't want to say some bull**** line, and being in the hall trying to get to class theres only so much you can say in the 4 minute time period before the bell rings. Im really trying to step my game up so let me know what you guys think.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Hi, My name is ______. Pleased to meet you".

You are way over-analyzing the situation. So, the answer is, "No, none of those are any good".

Keep in mind that I'm telling you this because you are starting out. Keep it simple, man.
 

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The Bat said:
"Hi, My name is ______. Pleased to meet you".

You are way over-analyzing the situation. So, the answer is, "No, none of those are any good".

Keep in mind that I'm telling you this because you are starting out. Keep it simple, man.
I don't know. Guys just don't randomly meet chicks at my school without a reason. I think that would come off as interested but i'll wait for more opinions. I don't feel there's anything wrong with keeping it simple, but im really trying to step up a little bit now.
 
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